TIME TO ACCEPT REALITY

You cannot change a person unless they want to change themselves

You cannot allow a person to misuse you or make you feel below yourself at all.

When a person has hurt you once....face the fact that they will do it again when the time comes.

No matter how many times you have to listen to your conscience and you hear yourself say over and over again..."There's something different about this person." or "Second Chances are always the best." Or "Forgiveness" is always the way.
It may not be in your best interest because as they call it "poison thinking" and "poison friends or enemies" don't get you anywhere.
They may actually be just a genuine real human being. You have to face the fact that they are not meant to be in your life at all and it's time to accept reality.

Time to realize that you need to move past all the garbage and the people who have pushed or tried to bring you down. Time to realize that you need to declutter and put them towards the back burner as they say. Moving them completely out of your life and realizing they cannot be in your life. Whether if it is someone who does not want to accept you, tolerate you, or not willing to open their hearts or minds. Then maybe that person or people just aren't for you.

Time to accept reality. Time to face the future and realize that there is no going back to the past again. Unless if it is something beneficial for your existence. Not something or someone in your life that will cause you pain or harm.
Time to accept reality and the way things should be is that you have to face it and figure your way out of it. There's no point of going back. No point of going out of your way for that person or people if they truly do not feel the way you would like to or better yet even if they have not even met your standards of what the concept of giving, loving, and accepting another human being is all about actually.
TIME TO ACCEPT REALITY I EMPHASIZE THAT!!

DO YOU REMEMBER...

Thought about the song you know the song by that handsome, Jay Sean
"Do you remember?"
Made me want to write something...

"DO YOU REMEMBER IN YOUR THIS?"
By: Chloe Riccardo
Do you remember as a child growing up?

Do you remember playing with kids...red light, green light? Hide and go seek?

For the girls...dressing up in your mom's clothes and having tea parties.

I remember girl scouts, being in ballet, doing recitals, going to parties, painting as a child

Doing arts and crafts.

Playing ring around the rosie

Waiting for Halloween (I still do) to pick a costume out

Do you remember your first love, your first crush?

The first person to inspire you? The first person to break your heart?

The first time your parents told you they were proud of you?

Do you remember your first rollercoaster ride?

The first time you got in trouble in school?

The first concert you went to?

Your first school dance?

Do you remember your first time drinking (lol) for the older folks

Do you remember the first time you cried and laughed so hard your stomach hurt?

Do you remember the first movie you ever saw?

The first movie that scared you?

Do you remember the first bad grade you got?

Do you remember your first job?

Your first rejection?

Do you remember the first time you got your pay check?

Do you remember your first best friend?

I remember a lot of these things but my question to all of you and everyone is don't forget where you came from because all of those things are what prepared you to become the person you are today.

"I am a Queen looking for a King"

"QUEEN LOOKING FOR A KING"
OR LA REINA VISTO POR EL REY

"Queen looking for a King" by: Chloe J. Riccardo aka "Honey Brown Sugar"

I was watching the movie "Marie Antoinette" and you know she was the archduchess of Versailles & France and married to Louis Auguste, Dauphin of France. I love the idea of how they depicted their relationship and they had the ability to see past each others flaws and they sincerely grew to love and like each other as well. I am starting also to love all things that apply to royalty and the whole fairy tale ideal like that "Princess & the Frog" story or the other fairy tales like "Cinderella" or "Beauty & the Beast" lol... because I am a queen looking for a king myself now.

I am an African American Queen similar to the African Queens and all of the queens before me... I am looking for a king. A king who has high power, not an actual king but a man who treats himself and respects himself as the kings who have walked before us on the earth. A king is supposed to be the person in charge of the dynasty we plan to take hold of within the future. We are supposed to treat ourselves: mind, body, and spirit completely healthy and with respect. I want to be able to have a "castle" which would give our dynasty(the family we start one day) which would have our home and be able to start our childrens life together. I want to be able to give my king all he wants and desires. I also want to receive the same as well. So I would like to find my king...a man of power, stature, control, not dominating, or cold hearted. A man who is positive, giving, loving, has a good spirit, energy kind hearted, and good looks don't hurt (lol). Intelligent but not a know-it-all, No snob or slobs. A man who really cares for himself and is real, honest, and can give with his whole heart 100 percent to me. If he is ready for that. Just as a king can rule and can have power he looks out for others too and his family. Also the number one lady in his life besides his mother....his queen, his woman, his girlfriend/wife. So whoever my king will be I hope he knows that I expect and would simply love to be treated that way and I will give the same to him. I would like the both of us to look past everything and to repsect the golden rule "Do unto others as you would want done to you" and remember unconditional love is necessary for a healthy happy relationship Also...I do not settle for less. Lastly, if we are going to be joined together in a relationship we have to plan to rule the world together. If we shall meet he would be King of Hearts along with the Queen of Hearts, me...lol.

Too fly too waste my time on you

I AM TOO FLY...YEAH I SAID IT TOO FLY...TO FLY FOR YOU FOR ME TO BE WASTING MY TIME ON A FOOL LIKE YOU.
MY TIME IS PRECIOUS EVERY MOMENT, EVERY SINGLE DAY I REALIZE THAT I AM JUST TOO FLY FOR YOU TO BE WASTING MY TIME.
I HAVE THINGS TO DO...A LOT THAT CAN FILL AN ENCYCLOPEDIA.
I HAVE TOO MANY DREAMS, GOALS, AND THINGS TO ACCOMPLISH FOR MY LIFE.
I AM TOO FLY TO WASTE MY TIME ON YOU.
I APOLOGIZE FOR THE BLUNTNESS BUT I AM JUST KEEPING 100 AS THEY SAY AND OH SO REAL... BECAUSE SIMPLY I AM TOO FLY TO WASTE MY TIME ON YOU.
I HAVE SO MUCH TO DO AND I HAVE REALIZED THAT I AM WASTING IT ON SOMETHING THAT IS UNATTAINABLE SUCH AS YOURSELF.
IF YOU REALLY WERE WORTH IT. IT WOULD SHOW.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS AND CLEARLY YOUR WORDS AND ACTIONS HAVE SHOWN ME THAT YES I CAN NO LONGER WASTE MY TIME ON YOU.
I AM TOO FLY TO WASTE MY VALUABLE, PRECIOUS, TREASURED TIME ON A PERSON LIKE YOURSELF. SO NOW I MUST DO WHAT I HAVE TO DO. BECAUSE MY HANDSOME FRIEND, I AM TOO FLY TO WASTE MY TIME ON YOU.