Unconditional Love and Relationships

In Honor of Love Month Lolz I am going to keep the stories coming too.
“Unconditional Love and Relationships”
By: Chloe J. Riccardo


In Lady Gaga’s 2009 hit “Bad Romance” from her c.d. “The Fame Monster” she indicates in the song “I want your ugly, I want your ugly, I want your disease”. She is basically saying everything that you have whether it is ugly, hideous, or not perfect to you. It can be acceptable to her. Isn’t that kind and generous thought from Ms. Gaga? I believe her intention with that is a great message for all couples and it gives them the ideals of what a relationship should be like at that time.

I used that quote from her lyrics because it is perfect for the message I want my readers to get from this article. People want to be in a relationship with a person who will give the love, loyalty, and commitment that our parents almost give us. I remember learning how agape is the highest form of love people can reach and will reach especially when it comes to having a family and children. You need love from a person who will cherish you and give you what you’re looking for as well.
Plus now in our second decade of the twenty-first century with everything becoming more advance with technology and the way things have become warped around people seeing how celebrities change their looks as well. People begin to feel insecure while they are with their significant other and how they feel about themselves as well.

We live in a society now where people almost have to realize that they have to worry about acceptance from their partner. Some people desire that their partners want a fantastic looking person in front of them, a lot of money, and perfect genes. But let’s say we are not the best looking supermodel, musician, actor, or actress. Let’s say we are an average Joe in a relationship. We do not have much money as well. What do we do at that point? Change ourselves? I think not. People need a person with unconditional love.

We are always looking for love, when we go outside of our home to parties, social functions, clubs, museums, and other activities. But what kind of love I do not mean lust. I mean pure, unconditional, no strings attached love. People need the kind of love where a person can accept all of your flaws. They can look out personalities the ugly and good side. They can accept our bodies, past experiences, and all the other multifaceted parts of our lives. Who make us the individual that we are now.



We are looking for unconditional love. You need a life full of unconditional love or better yet agape. The love our parents bestow upon us every single day to make sure we are loved entirely. You need a person that can go through the good, bad, and the ugly sides and parts of our lives.

People need that every single day. You need your partner to be the person who will love all sides of you. I believe that is the way to live your life is being with a person who will be there for the good, bad, and the ugly. Once again that agape similarly to how our parents love us. They accept the good, the bad, funky, ugly, and everything as well. When people are looking for love not lust you should desire unconditional love. So you feel acceptance no matter if you have love handles, thunder thighs, a small 20-inch waist, you have two dollars in your pocket, or that you have a stutter, a mental disorder, or any other flaw. We are not perfect at all so I believe in unconditional love. It’s pure and should be desired and wanted from a person.

This is crucial in a relationship because you want to really be with a person that can give you a sense of pride, confidence, and belief in yourself. It is essential in a relationship between lovers especially. You need that extra boost in yourself. It is so necessary because women and men always need healthy self-esteem in a relationship.
Unconditional love is a value to a person and what they need for themselves. We need that to keep the relationship progressing and developing into a beautiful, long term bond.

The unconditional love in a relationship should be developed after time especially when a friendship is developed between the couple. That love will carry on into their relationship and they will have something meaningful not just a physical or sexual attraction. They have respect and confidence in one another and themselves.
Unconditional love is what is needed for a relationship to succeed to have a beautiful future together whether it is a relationship of two months or fifty-five years together. Unconditional love is what is going to sustain the test of time in a committed, healthy, and happy relationship.