When it comes to relationships everyone is looking for that perfect partner to determine who can complete their life and make them happy in a relationship. However when you look at the love of your life how can you determine if they will be faithful to you? You can look them in the eye all you want, try to believe their words, but actions and behavior always really convey the truth. You find out more about a person I heard from non verbal communication and it is so true. Let's say for instance you will never know if they will be completely monogamous and faithful but what if you hear he or she utter these words to you. "I am sorry baby I didn't mean it...I cheated because it's in my genes!" LMAO!!!! When I heard this I thought are you serious? You really have to be playing with me on this one. The new perfect excuse for cheaters to say "Yeah man...I got that DRD4" but really though all joking and playing aside. Scientists have decoded and found that cheating can take place in your DNA? Now it's not like your born a cheater but technically it is behavior that can be developed over time from adolescence and into becoming an adult too. First thing is first though the reason why there is such a problem with it is because of a little known thing called DRD4...this gene trait is what affects people with cheating. They have a strong thrill seeking personality. They're the people who want to go sky diving, bungee-jumping, and trying all these crazy daredevil activities. The thing about this behavior is that not only does it affect the way they act and doing all these crazy activities but you have to also let your partner to continue to behave the way they are though too. It can become too much for the woman and man in the relationship. Now I don't want anyone to drive themselves up the wall wondering if their man or lady has this gene. Only time will tell and you have to give them time in the relationship to prove their true side.
If you have misconceptions about them right away about cheating it will affect your relationship. The best solution is to have proof first and look at their behavior and actions first before you presume that they may be cheating or have the gene too. Make sure that before you both start dating or a relationship you don't get that inkling or conscience tells you this man or woman may be a cheater. If that is something you feel go with your instinct and let everything play out in time before you. As far as the DNA is concerned if this behavior is something that can be hereditary then it's something people will just have to live with as well. You cannot change your DNA just because of this one condition hopefully the man or woman who would be living with this they will manage it wisely, intelligently, and also consider their partner's feelings too.
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