In honor of Mother's Day dedicated to the special women in our lives

Mother's Day 2010 is coming up next week and of course this is going to feature how wonderful mothers are important to their children and relatives. Mothers are of course the nurturers, the providers, and there roles have become influential in their children's live as both mother and father. Mothers are so important they are the nucleus to holding down everything within a cell pretty much. You know how the mitochondria of a nucleus is the powerhouse of a cell. Let's put it this way your mother is similar to the mitochondria's job she is the "powerhouse" and the person who is the one who will form you into the person you will be as a child, teen, and an adult as well. I feel that a mother is so important in a child's life. I have met a lot of mothers over the users and without a doubt in my mind. All the mothers I have met they are and have made their children into the people they are now. It's necessary because they need that in their lives. I know so many times I have heard people tell me your mother is always going to be in your corner, Chloe. I know she has every step of the way. So I know how essential it is to have a mother who can protect, guide, and help you as well. I know now as a young woman that there were times I had to realize growing up that no matter what she told me there was a purpose to what was going to be helpful for me one day. Even if it meant I would have to do things I did not want to do or doing something outside of my comfort zone. I had to because it was going to make me a better human being all together. That's one thing I can say all mothers try to do for their children is give them a chance to succeed and take a chance to grow so they can become the person or the individual they are supposed to be. I was just talking to my mother last night telling her I remember when you told me I would need braces for the bottom of my teeth. I told her before we got to the dentist "Are you trying to turn me into Miss America?" and I look back on it. It was funny but then I see it now that she really was taking me to the orthodontist to perfect my teeth. Or whenever I needed anything my contacts, my glasses, going to the doctor, or whatever she has given me everything a mother could give a child. She has really raised me since day one in the hospital every step of the way. I don't want to get too emotional about it but I really do love her and cherish my mama. Lolz, every step of the way good and bad times because she has been here no matter what keeping and protecting me. I think god knew what he was doing when he chose her for me. When he chose the both of my parents actually...Okay, she's going to need a strong person around her because she needs a person who will help her mentally,physically, spiritually, and that can give her a happy life. Okay, we need a person who can give her everything she needs to become who she wants to be one day. Okay, i got the woman and the man for this...Gina will be her mother and Jewel will be her father okay. They will make her into the person she will be...she will learn how to be compassionate, she will learn how to be sensitive, not to have a big ego, she will be grounded, and she will be well-rounded, okay that's them...those are her parents bingo we got it. So I can say now, I am sooo blessed to have such a special mama a lot of people love her and even those who try to hate (yeah I said it) Lol, that they love her too. So to all the beautiful mothers I have met over the years. My grandmother, Shirley, my grandmother, Carlene, my great-grandmother,Margie, my aunts, my cousins, co-workers, my friends mamas lolz u know who u are. There are a couple celebrity mamas I gotta give some shout outs too Kimora Lee Simmons such a hard working mom I love her cause not only does she represent my mamas hometown but she's an only child like me too I love that she can do it all =) also, Beyonce & Solange's mama, Tina Knowles, Alicia Keys's mama. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!

COLLEGE LIFE: FALL 2004- SPRING 2010

I am graduating from college this June 2010 and I just have to do a story about college life because believe me it has changed me so much that I can say wow how did I do that?

I came to college in the fall of 2004 I was seventeen years old with one mission in mind I am going to study Journalism or Music Business. I was lost I was confused and I couldn't believe the ride and rollercoaster I was getting ready to embark on as a young woman. I walked in there with one of my best friends, Marisa lol she's gonna get me for putting her name in my blog. But I will tell you this when her and I went out there I had no clue what was getting ready to happen to the two of us and what we would experience on our journey through college. We were completely clueless on what we were getting ready to deal with as well. When I left my high school, Cathedral High School in New York, NY with my high school diploma I was this shy young lady who had a few friends and did not know what to expect at all. I had experiences but not enough to consider myself a journalist. I came into college as a C student my GPA was so low I was lucky to even make it to college. My writing skills were poor, my math skills were not that strong they were barely strong enough to get me into the math classes I needed. I was lost during college all i can think of is where am I going and where am I going to college this fall? My guidance counselor told me the only way I would ever be able to make into college after being rejected by four of my dream colleges: Howard, Hampton, Rutgers, and Hunter. I was not considered because my GPA was incredibly low and I would not be able to go there. Plan B came in mind with the help of my mother and a large book on Junior colleges and I applied to a two-year junior college and would get the GPA up before attending a four year college. Now mind you this was post-9/11 this was right after of course the economy had just changed. I had to decide how were we going to afford college because mind you I wasn't the kind of student who had scholarships lined up for me back then. There were no scholarships coming my way at that time. So we needed a way to get things rolling that way I could enter college and afford it as well. I applied first to BMCC (Borough of Manhattan Community College) and I was accepted but there was something about BMCC that told me no not yet Chloe not this school. Let's go somewhere else instead not BMCC. It was the last minute I needed a college to attend we were in the last weeks of the summer and I was not enrolled just yet.

Plus BMCC wanted me to take remedial courses (Yes, i said it remedial courses) but there's an upside to this though believe me. They wanted me to take 6 hour courses and I wouldn't even have credit going towards my degree. It was no fun at all it was actually disappointing because I realized there was no way I wanted to be behind. We fought my mother and I we fought together and we came up with a plan where else can I attend college?

We came up with a master plan...attend college in New Jersey and find a tw0-year college. We found two junior colleges, Hudson Community College or attend Bergen Community College in Paramus, NJ I found out by my buddy,Marisa. She told me she was applying there and they accepted her as well. As soon as I got there I knew this school is so right for me. My brain, my eyes, my instincts, and everything felt right. This is the school for me to go to. The campus was gorgeous, there were live geese walking by the golf course. When I saw the college and walked inside I felt that it was right for me to be there. I found they had two majors I was interested in Music Business & Journalism. I remember telling my mother...which one do we go with...She said Journalism. There it was...Journalism. Let's go with it and on we went. I began taking remedial courses at Bergen but at the same time I was able to take classes that would be beneficial for my associates degree as well. College was different I had to learn to be independent and had to learn how to be responsible for myself. So Bergen was the school with multiculturals around me completely. There had been a big debate of choosing an all African American college or a multicultural college. I chose the second. There was so much of a thought process in it you needed to know which environment was right for you. Bergen had a helpful program when I took my writing remedial courses as soon as I got there. I would be able to take college courses and improve my writing and math skills at Bergen while earning credit. That year fall of 2004 I met the professor who would change my whole writing experience and who would change and mold me into the writer I wanted to be when I left Bergen three years later. I met Professor Berkowitz. Marisa and I took a class with him to increase our writing skills. I did exactly that. In that class I learned how to do interviews. I almost forgot that as a child I did do an interview but I didnt realize it would have a profound affect on me as a young adult. So my professor was more than helpful he encouraged me all the way. I took Introduction to Journalism with him and he encouraged us to get involved with our college newspaper. I certainly did he and I also had a love of music as well. So it took me a while to get involved with writing. I felt my skills were not up to par with the other students. Well in all honesty it was right for me. I joined the college newspaper, The Torch in Fall of 2006. It took me 2 years to get there. I believe because I needed more experience first before actually getting there. I joined and met some of the most amazing people who were kind, funny, understanding, creative,crazy, and they would define the way my life would be from there on in that office and how it would be outside as well. I began doing interviews. My first interview was with a woman titled "How to succeed in college" something like that. She gave me 15-30 mins and it helped. I met so many people who were willing to help me out as well as critique my work. That year I also had to go through the ultimate test of my life which was passing remedial math as well. I was lazy when i first got there. I did not want to make an effort at all. I was so tired and I didn't want to put in the time. I realized that in order to succeed you have to make an effort. You have to go beyond yourself if you truly want to make the best out of college. So that year I finally passed my math classes and a philosophy course as well. That year I made sure it was going to be my year. I was on the Torch for a year and I left when it was time for me to graduate in the Summer of 2007. In the Fall of 2006 I applied to two colleges Hampton University and Hunter College in the spring of 2007. I was accepted to both colleges. With the help of math tutors, english remedial classes, my professors, and all that prepared me for my major as well. I graduated with my associates degree in Journalism in the summer. Now for me Hampton was my dream college but at the time I had to realize it would be expensive. We ended up going with Hunter College in New York, NY it was back to New York City I went. I was on a journey with Hunter from the beginning. Imagine going from one college to another where you have established your life. You have friends, a place of where you feel comfortable, you feel free to express your mind, free to be creative, I was doing well and I knew this was going to hard to leave that college and manage to go on by myself again and restart a new life. Being at Hunter College the roller coaster began things had changed vastly in my academic and personal life. Things became very different and then it was time to learn how the real world works. Because I was an out of state resident from New Jersey. I had to learn how to manage everything from scratch along with my mother. My mom and I became and would become very friendly with different parts of my new college. The financial aid office was going to be our new friends. We would become friends with the OASIS office, and yes I would become friends with the Reading & Writing Learning Center in Hunter College. I had to take an exam that took me 5 times to pass! I am not ashamed at all to say this because believe me I went through work. I went through so many highs and lows in college. It has caused me to realize that when you want something so bad in life. God will put you through the ultimate tests in life. I failed this exam and I had to take CPE writing courses I did not realize what goes into writing. Mind you I am an aspiring journalist and I had to learn how to really write not just for this exit exam, but for my classes, and it would prepare me for my future as a journalist. I had three or four different tutors. I had even made the staff frustrated as well. They did not give up on me though. They believed in me and they knew this girl is going to get it. She's getting better and more successful with this exam. I also had to put myself out there in college even more before I went to Bergen. I had to learn how to put myself out there to the extent I was really out there outside talking to strangers and interviewing them. Interviewing students I don't even know. It took me to a place that I really didn't realize I had already reached. I was going to become a journalists opening my heart to individuals I don't know from all walks of life and they would get to know me. I would share there stories, they could hear my stories, and they would become the preparation I was going to need in life to become a successful writer, reporter, producer, blogger, or wherever else I want to explore. Spring 2008 I declared my major as Media Studies, Fall 2008 I would meet the professor who would change my life and the way I was going to have to deal with people and even myself. I had to put a thick shield of armor on , I had to develop an alter-ego, and I had to realize that persistence was to become my middle name. I can tell you this 2008, was a rough year for me in college. I went through the ultimate tests in my life. I could not unfortunately take classes during that time. Do to financial reasons but as my mom told me "Spring you go in there with guns blazing!" Believe me I did Spring 2009 I went in there with the ultimate preparation. I knew what to expect and I went in there with confidence and I knew that I was going to pass my exams and I was going to make it. Let me tell you by the fall 2009 I had decent grades, I met new people, and I passed my CPE (CUNY Proficiency Exam) . I developed a way of letting people see the real me. Who I am what I go through and that I have an attitude of I will never give up no matter what you tell me or what tests you will give me. A friend of mine told me a story about two butterflies and how one did not want to stay inside a cocoon because it did not want to grow from a Caterpillar to a beautiful Butterfly. Now, I can tell you this...I am the caterpillar who has gone through many cocoons to become a beautiful butterfly. Physically, Mentally, Socially, Intellectually, Personally, Financially,Professionally, and Spiritually. This year I will graduate and yes I went through the ultimate tests. I succeeded though and so many people have helped me these past 5 1/2 years. Thank you to my beautiful mother, Gina Golden, my beautiful grandmothers, my great-grandmother, my father, my stepfather, my girlfriends (my besties), all of my family, the gentlemen I met along the way (they gave me confidence and support), the Film & Media department, my professors, and ME =)!. God bless all of you. For I know the meaning of success. I may not be Magna Cum Laude but I will tell you this I know the price of an education. I will be the first on my father's side of the family to graduate with a bachelor's degree and on my mother's side I will be an addition to the club of graduate students in my family. They inspired and aspire me. Thank you College life was right for me and yes mom you were 100% right I needed skills and I needed to be in college. She and I will celebrate this day together because she really has been behind me the whole way no matter what challenge came head on for me.

Do people find their happily ever after....?

I was changing the theme on my google page and came across the Disney fictional characters, Beauty & the Beast one of my favorite movies growing up as a little girl. I also loved Aladdin & Jasmine (she was the rich princess with the "sultan" as her father) and he the poor struggling street rat as they called him. Now, as a young adult in my early twenties it makes me wonder now do people find their happily ever after? Do you actually find the person you are meant to be with in the end? Okay let's take the classic story, Beauty & the Beast I love the message behind that story after you read the real version of it not the Disney movie that came out almost 20 years ago. In the real story when the beast passed away Belle comes to his side and manages to revive him and bring the beast back to life through her tears. It makes me think do people find the true love that they have been looking for. I am not saying Mr. or Mrs. Perfect but do people find that person who they believe completes them in the end. Take a look at the disney characters, movie characters, and other fictional characters in film or media. Then look around you at people you know and try to find the people who you know. Do people find their happily ever after. You know when there are fight sequences, battles, or dramatic scenes going on in a movie. It is almost similar to life when you are going through your struggle to get to where you are. Now let's say you're in a movie with your "love interest" aren't you going to fight for the person you want to be with in the end. Similar to Spider Man fighting for Mary Jane Watson...or Superman fighting for Lois Lane...you get my drift? Do people in real life find their happily ever after? Can you truly say you found one person in your life who completed you or made you feel like this is it? I am content....I am happy, I can go on and be free for the rest of my life and know in my heart this is the person I am going to be with no matter what obstacles. No matter what storms come through, no matter what challenges come in our way, no matter what anyone in our family or friends have to say. I will have my happily ever after with this person. It is funny but when you watch movies , music videos, or even in books don't you notice a pattern that the couple who strived and fought wind up being together in the end. I've noticed it a lot. Even in some of my favorite music videos the lead person always manages to get the girl or the guy who was right for them. So my beloved blog readers....tell me Do people find their happily ever after?

If they do actually let me put it this way do they manage to look out for each others best interest at heart. Can they both contribute together at the end of the day. Do they manage to make their love work no matter what comes ahead of them. That's my point actually. I know these are fictional characters but my point is in the end they found love between them no matter what was going on in their life. That's my point they got to their happily ever after as they say. Take a look at the past of romantic comedy films the two love interests always find each other in the end. So blog readers like i said think of your own loved ones, your neighbors, the person down the street from you, people you've gone to school with also, your co-workers, your friends, and family. Did anyone manage to find their happily ever after? It kind of makes you think doesn't it?

Good Guys vs. Bad Guys & Good Girls vs. Bad Girls

I am no expert at all in this field of judging character cause I believe in the fact you don't know a person until you have spent a lot of time with them. When you're around them, their friends, their loved ones, their co-workers, and every one else important in their life. Then you can judge to see is this person he/she a good guy/girl or a bad guy/girl. Now in the beginning I was only going to focus on a good guys personality and how he treats a woman. However, now I have something better in mind. Let's take it both ways because as human beings no one is entirely perfect at all. You can have a perfect physique but there are flaws in everyone. That's what make us all unique individuals wondering this beautiful planet every day and night. Okay here we go my beloved blog readers....Good Guys vs. Bad Guys first. Let's say ladies you are out on a date with a guy and he is with you in the location you are at. A beautiful woman walks in the room and you see his eyes glance over at her. How do you respond? How do you react? Let's say you run to the ladies room and he begins speaking with her while you are in there. What do you do? Do you overreact or do you just calmly say "Who was that!?!". Let's say you're in a movie theater with your sweetie and a chick flick comes on the screen (now this is from personal experience). A chick flick comes on the screen and then suddenly you're sweetie says "I am not taking you to see that". Emphasis on Not...What does that mean that clearly he has some issues with exploring the female psyche. Why not go to a chick flick? Maybe it will help you understand that women sometimes need a guy to have an open mind? What is wrong with that. Especially if its not a chick flick with weeping and dramatic corny scenes. Something more interesting for both of you to enjoy. Clearly if your man says this to you...no matter how long you have been together (one month to fifty-years). You guys need to talk because your boo, baby, sugar dumplin', or sweetie pie has some explaining to do. Another example the ultimate test what does he say about you to your friends or to his friends. This is one of those good guys vs. bad guys tests immediately. If he shows lack of respect of you in front of his friends, his family, or anyone important he's not into being with you at all. If he refers to you in a derogatory fashion the man is not for you! This is when you know that its time to send him packing and get the steppin' lol because he is not interested in being with you.

Good guys let's say...you know when he's genuine...he's patient, considerate, respectful, attentive, he pays close attention to details of you...your visage (face), your physique, your hands, your nails, the sound of your voice, your scent, your hair, how you dress. He notices how you interact with others. He prides you on simply being yourself. He does not flirt with you in a disrespectful way or comes on too strong, forward, and aggressive. There's a way to be flirtatious without being obscene and disgusting at the same time. So if he clearly has that problem then he's not such a good guy and maybe he's the gentlemen above I discussed before. Now some other signs are he curious about your interest, he's playful, he wants to care for your needs. He wants to give you the time you need. He can be compromising and open to exploring what you and he wants as well. Now a good guy will know when to bring you home to mama and papa. He will know when he sees that you are not like the bad or wild chicks he has seen in his life. If he sees that this is someone he can put on a pedestal and show her she's a worthy queen and she will be the queen in his kingdom. Enough said he knows you are going to be the one who he needs and wants around him. He knows when you are the person who will be valuable to him. You are important for what he needs in a stable healthy relationship. You're not just his "jump off".

PART 2....Good Girls vs. Bad Girls.

A good girl is someone who you may consider classy, conservative, she has conservative views she may not be the buck wild, crazy, frisky, or party girl you see in music videos or who you see in some nightclubs. She may be a little more than that. She may show you she is above and beyond what you're actually looking for. She has a moral code that she sticks too. She may want to have a good time but knows how to limit herself. She doesn't have to cause a riot for crazy attention. She doesn't have to put on a scene with a whole lot of public attention. A good girl will show you the qualities you desire. Intelligent, Respectful, Funny, Polite, Attentive, Understanding, Giving, Nurturing, She knows how to stand her ground, Independent, Responsible, Considerate, and Helpful. As well as beautiful no matter what creed,race,sexual orientation, physique, or even mental condition. That doesn't define a good girl. Her character defines who she is and what she represents. Now she will try to even be one of the guys with her man and his friends. Even in cases of sexual orientation her girlfriend's needs. Lol So like I say...you will know when she's worthy of your time and when you need to dismiss her like a raggedy pair of old shoes.

A Bad Girl...she smokes, she drinks consistently, she takes advantage of your money and uses it to the 10th power, she insults your family, your friends, your whole being, your religion, your personality, she curses in front of your family. She publicly humiliates you, she doesn't make time for you at all, She cheats on you. She doesn't consider your needs or anything you may want to do at all. She's disrespectful, intolerable, and she dresses provocatively. In a way that goes from sexy to skank. She doesn't want to be around your loved ones just you most of the time. That shows you she is needy and clingy. A bad girl also she can give you signs in about five minutes. She'll take what she wants immediately. She will date someone who is in your inner circle like your best friends in a heartbeat. She takes advantage of your genuineness she will use it every chance she gets. A bad girl there are so many ways to describe her but I believe my beloved readers get my drift. There's a thin line between sexy/skank...conservative/provocative woman. All these traits can affect your relationships and hopefully I hope they will help you to distinguish the two a little better than what you actually want. Maybe you may be one of them yourself. You never know. It's never to late to change. Watch out for them Bad Boys , Good Girls, Bad Girls, and Good Guys. They exist truly.

"US CENSUS 2010'' FORM: Not as innocent as it seems.

It kind of occurred to me yesterday that maybe when it comes to something you are not supposed to see. Then you really should not see it for a reason.

I am referring to the US Census 2010 form for all the Americans in our country every new decade we have to fill out the 15-20 question form and answer the questions so our government can see the changes they need to make on the population of our country and the many different changes that we have to deal with as well. A friend of mind mentioned racial profiling to me. The truth is after seeing the form. There is truth in my friend's comment. I believe that is right actually. They classify you of course based on race. White/Anglo-Saxon, African American/Black/Negro! (now), Hispanic (Non-White), Asian American, Pacific Islander, Indian-American, Native American (vast difference), Biracial, now Multiracial. Now I love that our country is so diverse believe me. I live in one of the most diverse neighborhoods, attend college in the city of one of the most diverse states, New York. I also for years since I was age 9 or 10 had friends from all walks of life and backgrounds. I have never had any problem with that at all. I accept it and embrace that as well. This is what makes me Chloe Jewel Riccardo. Now first of all I have to say this US Census form should have been double checked for typos and errors twice by the secretaries or whoever typed it up. Also mind you did President Obama or Vice -President Joe Biden see this? Did Michelle see this? Did the kids see this? What is going on? Have we really not evolved now? We are supposed to it is 2010 and we are in the second decade of the twenty-first century. Why are people still fascinated with the idea that you have to put down Negro for African Americans . I don't believe in this at all when it comes to my race I am sorry honey but I am not a Negro. I am the sixth or seventh-generation born here in America of my family. I am not a Negro and I do not consider myself that. I may use the word for reference because I do not want to be called anything differently. That's not where I am at all. I should not be referred to that. My people should the community should not be referred to that. Do not make me take a ride down to DC to protest against this because I will. Believe me I will walk down to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue and protest against this little form. It is disrespectful because mind you Mr. Obama is biracial. How can you let this slip up!?! I voted for you in 2008 how can you let that happened. If he did not see it well hopefully the people in his oval office will let him. Make a change and leave as on the US Census 2010 form change immediately. You guys are talking about moving forward...how about make some changes damn it! I am sorry but its not acceptable to me. It's almost disgraceful and ridiculous actually. That's pathetic. US CENSUS 2010 form you need to change sorry. Maybe it was good that my mother filled you out instead of me. I would've attached a letter along with it.

New Reality Television Shows debuting on VH-1

New Reality Television shows are making their debut across the airwaves on VH-1. Rozonda "Chilli" Thomas from pop/r&b Grammy /Amercian Award winning group 1990s "TLC" has made her debut with a reality television show this spring. Chilli of course who was with the multitalented and handsome, Usher Raymond several years ago is looking for love on her show. She is getting the help from a female counterpart actually who is giving her opinion on who would be best to complete and keep up with the superstar. "What Chilli Wants" is bound to be exciting, funny, dramatic, and hilarious. A show like this is actually beneficial for females especially now. This is like the female version of the bachelorette or "For the Love of Ray J". This is a show that will give women and men the opportunity to take a look at what a woman who doesn't have bad habits but healthy ones can find the king in her castle. I honestly don't think Chilli would have a hard time finding a man. C'mon everyone you know she was the sexy one in TLC let's not forget that, Left-Eye may she rest in peace was the "crazy" one, T-Boz the cool one and we all know Chilli was the sexy,spicy one. So let's be real. I am glad to see that a lot of 90's pop and R&B stars are crossing over into the reality television. It gives them a chance to shine and get their names back out there again. It makes me wonder will Chilli or T-Boz get back in the studio? Could there be a reunion? We shall see...will there be another album again not since there last TLC album, 3D will they come back out again? I hope so I grew up with them and love their music. So to see Chilli in the spotlight this makes me happy to see VH-1 producers, writers, and owners giving her a chance. Good luck Chilli! I hope the last episode she will find the one.

Now another pop diva, who is making her debut is Brandy...another favorite of mine I would sing "The Boy is Mine" until i was blue in the face. Lolz So to see Brandy & Ray J back again with their show "A Family Business" come on this is too good not to miss. Their parents have pretty much managed their whole careers. So this show is bound to give all its viewers the inside look to what its like behind the scenes of putting together two of the biggest R&B stars together. Brandy who had success since the age of 15 has been featured all over. From her first album to the last one in 2008, Human. It's good to see the success of their careers taking over and getting their names back out there as well. Along with Ray J who has had major success with "For the Love of Ray J", "Sexy Ladies", "Sexy Can I", "One Wish", etc. The show is guaranteed to show you how to make two pop stars 101.

The last show with another pop diva, is Jessica Simpson who we all know from "Newlyweds" reality television show back in 2002, with her ex-husband and 98 degrees singer, Nick Lachey. Jessica is on her own with this one traveling around the world to get the message of what is truly beauty on, "The Price of Beauty". I am glad to see her spreading a positive message of one that is essential in this time. People need to know what beauty is from all perspectives. I am glad to see her taking the time out of her very busy hectic schedule to promote this to tweens, teenagers, young women, and all women from all walks of life, race, and experience. So everyone check out "Brandy & Ray J Norwood: A Family Business", "What Chilli Wants", and "The Price of Beauty".

Spring 2010 films: "Our Family Wedding" review

"OUR FAMILY WEDDING" SPRING 2010 FILMS WITH CHLOE RICCARDO "HONEY DIP 201"

So many great movies are coming out this spring this year. I am going to be doing reviews on them. My first one which I give five stars as well. =)

"Our Family Wedding" is a romantic comedy that will probably be around for ages to come. Our Family Wedding is about Lance Gross (Marcus) and America Ferrera (Lucia). The story has a introduction almost similar to Romeo & Juliet in a way. Their fathers clash and then they instantly dislike each other. As time progresses throughout the film you see Forest Whitaker and Carlos Mencia's bond between their character gets stronger as well as the way their children's relationship gets stronger as well. Both men get a chance to reflect on a way and pay attention to their relationships at home and personally too. "Our Family Wedding" is a laugh out loud, foot stomping comedy. It shows that even despite obstacles that may come throughtout relationships, racial tensions,and two families intertwined throughout their relationship. You find the meaning of true love and making love work throughout anything. "Our Family Wedding" is a great date film and you should take anyone who has a love of comedy to see the film. Charlie Murphy's role is hilarious! and as well as a lot of mishaps throughout the movie. I enjoyed it and I recommend you see it now "Our Family Wedding" starring Lance Gross from "Tyler Perry's House of Paynes", America Ferrera from "Real Women Have Curves", "Ugly Betty", and "The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants". A long with movie veterans Regina King and Forest Whitaker. Also up and coming comedian and actor Carlos Mencia. In theaters now go see it with your family.

Usher's New Album Raymond vs. Raymond

Usher is back!!!! Yes the R&B singer, entrepreneur, dancer,songwriter, Usher Raymond has been in the game about 15 years now and he is back. His album "Raymond vs. Raymond"has made its new debut on March 27, 2010. He is ready to go on to the next chapter of his life and singing songs that reflect the past 6 years since "Confessions" which debuted in March of 2004. I remember very well because I have the albums both editions at home. "Raymond vs. Raymond" reflects the 31-year-olds new life now since he is evolving into a man. The albums is supposed to relect the different sides of his personality. The dark side and the good side of his personality. Already making airwaves "Daddy's Home" is constantly in rotation on the airwaves on pop and R&B radio stations. "OMG"featuring Will. I. Am the pop single he debuted last night, Wednesday on American Idol with a hot performance with Will.i.am. from The Black Eyed Peas. The song is about his feelings for a young lady and how she makes him feel blown away and saying like the text phrase "Oh my god!". This album he's going to do it again. He is about to crossover even more into a more pop direction. He has already done it with "Yeah" featuring Ludacris & Lil'Jon from Confessions now he is going to blow the minds away crossing even more into younger demographics. Usher and his management team really know what they're doing with this one. You can get him for all the R&B fans, you can get him for the pop fans, you can get him in the dance and night clubs as well. He is ready and he's back again. If you do not have it yet download it on Itunes.com, Buy at your local mom & pop shop, or Target always has great prices, FYE has really good prices too when you look for the sales. He has really grown even more as an artist and man. He has been through it all becoming a husband in the past, a father with two adorable little boys, and maturity reflects a lot. I am glad and looking forward to seeing more. He's back now and better than ever pick up your copy today or listen on your ipods, or on the computer.