"I am the MVP Trophy"

Hello my readers you know I am a Renaissance woman ....writing, dancing, blogging, writing poetry, songs, and more. Here's something I wrote recently just a couple of days ago about when you are ever feeling any doubt about your worth, your value in personal relationships. When feelings of respect, value, appreciation are not shown. Remember you are an MVP, you are a trophy, you're the prize ladies never forget that....every time you walk by the mirror, every time you raise your hand to speak, every time you step foot inside your job, a board room, even when you come home. You are God's most valuable players....

To quote one of my inspirations on dating, relationships, and self-love and worth. “Women take the pressure off  yourself when dating. He has to impress you not the other way around….YOU ARE THE PRIZE!”-Steve Harvey the Love Doctor

"I am the MVP Trophy" by Chloe Riccardo 

I want a man who doesn’t want to keep me a secret or treat me like a hidden dark secret tucked in his mind or his back pocket and he only thinks of me late at night. I want a man who thinks of me 24/7 and can still focus on himself and his goals too. He is strong, confident, he is similar to me goal-oriented, determined, yet he knows he deserves and values a true love and romantic relationship. I want him to know the first time he sees me he just knows I am not going to loose this woman. She’s too valuable to me. If he’s with me he’s going to know “She is the best thing that came into my life”.

I want the man who will go to a jazz, opera, rock, hip-hop, R&B, reggae, pop event with me. He’s not afraid to go to a chick flick, wear pink, or if his daughter paints his nails he’s ok with it. He will come with me to a charity event because he believes in giving back to the community and globally around the world to help all of those who need it the most. He’s the kind of man who when he’s at work and having a great day or even a challenging one he’s excited to tell me all about it when he comes home. He’s excited to call me yes call I didn’t say text. He wants to hear my voice.

I want a man who’s so proud to be with me he will intentionally call up the florist order flowers and have them shipped to my office where I am working or my home just to impress my co-workers and my family like “Yes I want to be with your daughter or your co-worker and I am not ashamed she’s my queen or she’s the one I want in my life”. He’s so excited to introduce me to his mother and father, his siblings, his closest friends, his co-workers, or neighbors. There is no deceit, no malice, no discretion that needs to be provided. He’s proud I have seen this kind of love displayed in my life. It’s the kind of love for a person you’re so happy for these people that they found someone special who knows they are deserving.

I also need a man who will protect me I travel a lot and safety is crucial. I need a man who when I am traveling down the street with him he’s not afraid if another man starts cat calling towards me. He can defend my honor and protect me. I know he won’t embarrass himself or me but he simply wants to make a nonverbal and verbal statement….”Back off the lady…she’s with me”. Or if we are in a nightclub he knows to tell other men…sending a clear message “step aside she only dances with me”.

I want him proud…display me on your social media, your twitter, face book, snapchat, instagram, and everything in between. Encourage me to discuss you and share you in my life with friends, family, or posts. Why should you be kept in the dark. Don’t treat me like the sidepiece, the side chick, I am no ones sidepiece, I am the touchdown you catch in football, the three-point shot that Curry makes in a basketball game, the home run in the world series game, and I am the belt that you wear in a boxing championship. You display me just as proudly when you earn and work hard for me. You would display your greatest accomplishments up on the mantle of your living room or in your house in a beautiful place. Treat your ladies the same way when you meet someone who can change your life you have to be proud of the woman you’re with because she can change not only the man, the person, and she adds greater value to you.

I constantly think of what I have become as I have matured into a young woman and I know when I had some lonely moments when I felt unworthy, undeserving, I needed someone to validate it for me. I knew it but I needed to hear those words from a man I adored, appreciated, and loved it made it that much special for me. That he could me in my life at dark moments and happy times. I needed someone who wanted to be another member of “Team Chloe”. He will encourage every goal, every dream, every idea that may help or push me further in my career.

I am a boss, a creative fire-cracker who will add and contribute so much to your life if you are luck to have me and be in my world. You don’t even realize who you are dealing with at all. I say this not out of arrogance or to be smug. I say this because every woman should feel this way you should feel pride of who you are and treat me like a valuable piece of fine art, a 20 karat diamond ring that needs top flight security, a private jet plane, a five-star establishment, or the most expensive item you own in your own home. Treat me with respect, love, appreciation, and take care of me just as you would those items. I guarantee you will see nothing but reciprocation and adoration returned 10x fold over and more.  Treat me like I am your MVP-your most valuable player in your team and more.