Friday, April 3, 2020

The Original Manhattanite's take on the Covid-19 pandemic


Just a month ago I was with my family enjoying life going to the movies, the library, Broadway shows, shopping, seeing my friends, co-workers, and family members just like all of you. Then the world stopped and was put on hold. I couldn't believe it much like the billions of you. We were all shocked and still couldn't believe what we were hearing about this invisible enemy attacking our fellow humans. It's like we are living in a science fiction film it's a new reality for all of us. So now that we are adapting and getting used to this new world. Stay creative because when we come together all of these skills and talents will come in handy now and in the future. 
Please wash your hands for 20 seconds, continue to, wear your masks, gloves, all facial protection. We have got this and we will get through this united together. 

The new reality of New York City Social Distancing, Major Landmarks are closed, restaurants, and businesses put on hold. We will be back in business this is just a prolonged intermission. The show will go on I have faith it will and you should too =) 

I thought this was hilarious! The Corona Hotline inside the Food Emporium Gourmet Grocery Store in Union Square. Maybe we need a Corona Comfort Hotline too ?

One of my favorite lunch spots Speedy's closed down due to the Covid-19 pandemic. Showing you the reality in NYC.

I took an empty bus and an empty train ride downtown as a precaution to be safe. It's normally about 50 -70 people inside the train car traveling around the subway on weekly basis. 

I started writing this blog initially to promote my passions, topics, people I whose projects I am highly interested and support completely. Plus it is a way for me to get my writing and journalistic skills perfected. I also wanted to focus on pop culture what’s happening right now as we are living it. I think of the Original Manhattanite blog as my digital time capsule for my future children, grandchildren, family, friends, and of course you! It’s a snapshot of the world we currently live in and they get to see what we are currently wearing, where we travel to, how the world is at this point in the time. As they say time is of the essence. So it’s a beautiful time for social media as our world is coming together, your families, friends, and the next generations they get to see how we survived it all. It’s my real life history book that I am actually living and people get to see what is actually happening.

It is April 2020 the beginning of spring just began, the new decade just began we are only 4 months in right now and the world has just been hit with a pandemic called Covid-19/Coronavirus pandemic. Right now as we speak New York City is a ghost town. We have 19-20 million people within the city and that’s not even counting the whole entire state of New York. I can’t even imagine what the other 7.5 billion people are feeling right now, that’s a lot of weight to carry, and it’s a flood of emotions we are all feeling inside our hearts, minds, and souls. Luckily we are in an age of distraction, resourcefulness, and a productive place. We can keep our minds, bodies, spirits, and souls in check. So you can go outside take an hour walk, listen to music on your radio, cell phones, Ipods, I phones, and laptops. You can pray and worship with your church and hear special sermons to get you through the day. You can even download apps to have a quick session with therapists, family counselors, relationship counselors, and counselors who can assist with emotional crises during this time. It’s just an app away if you cannot get outside in public, or you choose not to go in person to your doctor’s offices. You can create and do so much more at home now.
I am going to set the scene for you….we are walking around the city looking like semi-surgeons or medical residents and interns with plastic gloves, face masks of all different creations and personal style to protect our respiratory system. It’s funny in a way because we look like we are getting ready to do a science project. That’s how this feels like one big science project where we need to survive. It’s the game of “Don’t get the Corona virus” game…because the reality is if you lose. Unfortunately you lose your life.
This situation is extremely serious people who we see every single day in our friends, our family members, people in our neighborhoods, communities, our television screens, hear on our radios, pod casts, and who have major power and influence. This vicious, invisible, and powerful disease affects all of these amazing people.  I am hearing names that I recognize right away and it’s heartbreaking to hear. You wouldn’t expect it but it feels as if a bully or enemy just came in and said “I am taking down these people now”. It sounds dramatic but the truth is it is. This is real life and we have to do our best as New Yorkers, as Americans, as Human Beings on our precious, valuable Mother Earth to save our friends. We are losing our friends, our family members, and it’s unfathomable to believe. Yet it’s true.
 It’s amazing how simple that is the very source of our life is to breathe simply breathe in oxygen, breathe out carbon dioxide, and now we are walking around with barriers on our face to prevent us from a terminal disease that can attack your life source-your respiratory system.

I have lived in New York practically my whole life I am a native New Yorker born here I lived here 4 years went off to Washington, DC in 1991 for six years came back to Jersey City in June of 1997 and moved to New York 14 years later in the fall of 2011. We have survived a lot in New York City the blackout of 1977, 9/11 in 2001, Hurricane Sandy in 2013, the financial and economic depression of 2008, the 2016 election I am sorry but let’s be real, we have survived so many obstacles and debacles every single day and so has our country America. Covid-19 better known as the Corona virus has our country and globe on major lockdown. 

We survive problems of low and high from every issue in every single emotional, financial, mental, business mergers, changes, and relationship I think we can survive a limited shut down in our country. In between the time of  March 13, 2020-March 31, 2020 the city has been shutting down progressively. I was let go from a long-term temporary assignment with a major rental property company/non-profit organization, Phipps Houses. Mayor Bill de Blasio, Governor Andrew Cuomo, President Trump, the World Health Organization, The Center of Diseases Control,  Governor Phil Murphy of New Jersey,  all declared a government shutdown of all non-essential businesses raising it from 25 percent and shooting to 100 percent of all businesses to shut down completely.
I have never seen my city, our city like this at all. I am used to seeing people, tourists by the thousands pushing, smiling, taking pictures, posing with cartoon characters, posing in front of Times Square, the Empire State Building, the New York Public Library, downtown by the Financial district, Fifth Avenue and Madison, even by Central Park. It is empty and desolate. Yesterday I took the train just to run a couple of errands and when I decided to walk from 14th street Union Square all the way passed Broadway, and then up to 57th and Madison Avenue it was probably no more than 1,000 people probably within the area walking. It was empty, quiet, stores that we love like Marshalls, H&M, Forever 21, Macy’s, Bloomingdales department stores all closed with signs saying “We love you New York, please take care of each other, and we will see you soon.” It breaks your heart I still work for these companies I havepart-time jobs within the retail/fashion industries it hurts when you see your jobs go through a rough transition. When they were just blooming, bustling, and working hard less than 2 weeks ago.  Then it’s a slap in the face to the consumers, the vendors, the business owners, their staff, all of these employees who are behind the scenes and work on the sales floor of each of these locations around the city.
You look around at the place you love and see what’s missing the people who make this city amazing. We are the souls of light who give the concrete jungle its life source of energy. When you look at all of the numerous empty buildings up and down the streets of Fifth and Sixth Avenue, midtown, downtown, Wall Street. Remember people are the ones these employees are what keep the city rolling, going with their ideas, creativity, innovation, business tactics, tenacity, hustle, and drive. So that income keeps rolling and keeps on thriving for everyone in the economy. It’s a Ghost town in New York City. There aren’t any people to give them what it needs. We are here but we aren’t doing what we do best. Every industry has had an impact the creative industries, financial, the mass public transit, the buses, and trains are the only that continue to emerge are the medical, food, produce, and factories which keep us alive with food, juice, milk, and snacks.
The best thing about our city is that we know how strong our resources and survival skills are so we are able to bounce back even faster. I think it’s a matter of listening you have to pay attention and listen. I found out last night that if I even wanted to go see my father who lives in a different state. I would have to be quarantined just go to visit him in Florida or my other relatives who live there. It’s not shocking for any of us but it hits you in the gut though. I am looking around and yes we have some beautiful days but it doesn’t feel real. It feels empty, cold, and a bit distant for all of us. As if there is apiece missing the heartbeat of our city. I know they are doing all of this as a precaution to make sure that we are safe, we are protected, because lets face it our island is packed with close to 20 million New Yorkers and that’s probably just the island of Manhattan count the five boroughs and the entire state of New York. The entire population of our country has been placed on a hold. This is probably the first time I have seen in my twenty-plus years living here the impact taken to this extreme. So everything is very new and unexpected usually with some plans everything goes smoothly. The government has ordered high orders of supplies, water, hand sanitizer, cleaning supplies, gloves, and food to assist with everyone who will be stationed at the following buildings will be converted into temporary hospitals because of the size of our city.
One of my old colleges Bergen Community College was converted into a testing facility for everyone to be tested for the symptoms and if they are experiencing anything. For the majority of people who are healthy and you feel 100 percent symptom free. The screening centers suggest everyone to stay home so they will not be affected or come into contact with anyone carrying the virus. Or who is the most vulnerable and could potentially get the virus.  Other colleges like Old Westbury, PNC Theater, the Jacob Javits Center, and many local state colleges have been converted into hospitals to help support and assist urgently for large amounts of people.
On a personal note I was screened as well at my local hospital Mount Sinai Hospital and just as a precaution my doctors told me continue using your facemasks and gloves. Use them when you are in volumes of high numbers of people and have close proximity to people.  I just had a couple of symptoms for a cold but I am perfectly healthy and doing great. So I want to help those who know or may be dealing with this condition on a personal note.
Continue to wash your hands, your face, and take care of your respiratory health. Eating and drinking foods high in vitamin C will assist you with this condition, daily exercise, and watching television programs or films with positive messages will assist you during this time. For more information for everyone with this condition know that there is medical assistance, support, many hospitals ready and getting prepared to give you all the best care right away. No one can be turned away no matter his or her socioeconomic background or financial status. Everyone will be seen right away if they are experiencing any health issues.

Here is a timeline for my readers, the next generation, and a little cheat sheet for you to hear and read about in your history books. So when you read your history books in person, online on the computer, or on your mobile devices. I want you to know these facts are 100 percent true. You can go online to watch videos of press conferences, look at newspapers, and talk to your friends, their family members, your family members, and your neighbors so you can learn about this time. You will be informed on why this was happening, and how we all survived this situation.
February 2020- International Travel the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) declares within the air is suspended, no incoming or outgoing flights are allowed for travelers and passengers due to the Covid-19 spread and the announcement of international cases in Europe, parts of the United States, Asia, and Australia declare that the number of Covid-19 cases are spreading and symptoms develop becoming severe. Later in March they decide that anyone traveling domestically must be quarantined for 2 weeks before they travel to see loved ones. Later in March the majority of the United States becomes “the epicenter” of the carrier and virus.
March 13, 2020-“Friday the 13th” The government and New York State declared officially a state of emergency against the corona virus pandemic, all jobs and business industries were asked to work remotely from home and not to return to their offices. They were asked to continue working if they had laptops and work from home. (On a personal note I left my long-term assignment I was working as an office coordinator for Phipps Houses real estate Company in New York City. I left officially on March 17, 2020 Saint Patrick’s Day and was asked to leave because of precautionary and health measures).
The same day President Donald J. Trump and the Department of Treasury/Internal Revenue State declared all 2019 state and federal taxes can be filed up until July 15, 2020.

All entertainment industries are put on hold-Broadway goes dark for a month, Movie theaters go dark for the first time all across the country, restaurant industries are impacted and goes dark shutting down for health measures.
March 27, 2020- The Department of Labor, and the federal government signs and releases “The Cares Act” releases and states that all employees will be able to receive unemployment from the government. They will receive a stimulus package if they filed their 2018 taxes and will also receive unemployment during this crucial time. This money is to support families during this impact on the economy.
Governor Andrew Cuomo declares that he will set up temporary hospitals, Covid-19 screening centers with New York City, Governor Phil Murphy declares New Jersey State will have temporary screening center locations within the state of New Jersey. Stony brook University, PNC Center, Jacob Javits Center, Bergen Community College,     
March 30, 2020-The Red Cross Organization’s U.S.S Comfort ship docks at New York Harbor in downtown New York City and arrives with thousands of medical staff, medical supplies because we have had a shortage in medical supplies-masks, gloves, hand sanitizer, and most of all our life saver machine in this crisis (the ventilators). The ship arrives safely and all of the staff has been dispersed around the city to provide medical support to all of our top hospitals (Mount Sinai, Cardinal Cooke, Beth Israel, New York-Presbyterian, Montefiore-Einstein Medical Hospital, Metropolitan Hospital, New York Hospital Queens, and all local hospitals within the city).
April 1, 2020-Andrew Cuomo declares as a precaution to all New Yorkers and to keep up with social distancing playgrounds will be closed for children to protect their lives and to keep them away from the spread of the disease.


To all of our angels-one of my family members calls the first responders our “guardian angels” and it’s true. To everyone around the world right now our real-life angels out there on the front lines, inside the hospitals, making major life sacrifices all of our hospital staff employees, the volunteers, the nurses, the doctors, housekeeping staff, the medical factory companies who are supplying all of us with more masks and medical supplies and machines, the engineers who are out there right now creating more machines for the critical patients who need it the most right now, all of the businesses assisting with food, water, supplies, and making a difference to keep everyone alive, healthy, and thriving during this crucial time. We thank you. We salute the military right now for also stepping up to assist with volunteering, passing out food to the all families, those who need it the most our people barely getting by, and need the financial support, the charities who are stepping up to feed and assist right now. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts, souls, and appreciate your support right now. To our government employees thank you so much for your assistance and moving expeditiously to decrease the financial pressure and stress as well. We know they are our cheerleaders making sure every human being, every U.S. Citizen is counted for and they are taken care of right now.  This is one of those times we are going to see the city bounce back in an amazing way. You’re going to see businesses thrive even more, people will come back from this stronger, wiser, more appreciative, and will have a new foundation and respect for life even more. When we get to the other side of this chapter we will look back on it like “Yes we are better, stronger, wiser for this life lesson”. This is time I think for all of us to step up and do our part.
To all of my readers please visit the Department of Labor website for more information http://www.dol.gov, http://www.labor.ny.gov for New York State residents http://www.who.gov , http://www.cdc.gov, http://www.covid19.ny.gov , http://www.covid19.nj.gov and all sites according to your state within the United States.

Please keep tagging, spreading the word about #AloneTogether #SocialDistancing #WhereYourGlovesandMasks #StayingHome 

I love all of you who read my blog so I included some music selections of all kinds to keep you, your friends, and families pumped up because we are going to survive this and so much more that comes our way. We have got this and we will bounce back 10x times over and more. Stay Positive, Stay Busy, Stay Safe,  Talk, Text, Video Chat, Skype, and Love Each Other ☺☺☺ Besos, Bacios, Hugs, and Kisses your friend The Original Manhattanite Chloe J. Riccardo xoxoxo

Saturday, February 15, 2020

"In the Heights" movie will kick off summer 2020


I saw the preview for this movie and was so excited to see it. I remember when I went to Times Square to see this show live. I saw it in person summer 2009 and I have been a fan of his since. He has done an incredible job with Hamilton the Broadway musical, and his career has changed and opened door for so many theater actors, dancers, singers, and writers. I loved the musical because it definitely reminded me of the times I have visited Washington Heights or even the Bronx. It was so New York it just sucked me in and I loved it actually.
Ladies and Gentlemen you are all in for a musical treat this summer. This summer “In the Heights” by Lin Manuel Miranda well officially have the green light and will have his first featured film brought to theaters. For all of my theater and live performance lovers this is huge. This unique, beautiful, original, and diverse play has touched billions around the world. It has been running for the last 15 years first premiered as an off-broadway play production and three years later debuted in March of 2008. I saw it the summer of 2009 and I remember being so proud walking out of the theater in Times Square. I bought a t-shirt with the in the heights logo. Now that it will become a live action film. It has stories that all of us can relate to about dreams, about community, relating to one another, about family, friendship, love, and unity. It is a story that features a diverse cast from every background and one that everyone can relate to this film. Miranda he wrote the original screenplay when he was in college in 1999. So he performed it for his Wesleyan University student theater production team originally. He discussed his growing up and his experiences. He added hip-hop lyrics and beats to add some flavor to it and spice. The next thing luck stepped in for him and he was approached  to see if the play could be expanded into a Broadway play. 6 years later and everything fell into place for him and the rest is history.  Miranda has been nominated for Outstanding Musical, Outstanding Director of a Musical, Outstanding Choreography, Orchestration, Best Musical, received Tony Awards for Best Performance, Best Scenic Design, Best Sound Design, a Pulitzer Prize, Best Musical Show Album, Best Costume Design, Best Set Design. In the summer of 2009 PBS also aired an episode of the “In the Heights Special: Chasing Dreams” to show a behind the scene glimpse and look at life for all of the actors, actresses, production crew, and what it takes to make the show work behind the scenes. Miranda has done a phenomenal job with creating originality in the theater industry. There’s no false, nothing duplicated, or similar at all. His stories have been real, relatable, and he’s touched generations of fans with his musicals. He believes in telling an original story that relates to the public and touches all of our hearts, souls, and minds.  I hope all of you will go see In the Heights it left an impression on me when I went to see it. If they ever brought it back again I would definitely go again to watch and will be there this summer 2020 to see it in theaters. Very excited for this one is going to open doors for all of the cast. The film stars (Anthony Ramos (I have seen Anthony in person on the set of “She’s gotta have it too”. He’s very talented and he can disappear immediately into a character watch him in “Netflix’s “She’s gotta have it too” he’s like Spike Lee’s twin as Mars,  he’s also performed in “Grease”, “Damn Yankees”, “21 Chump Street”, “Hamilton”, and performed in “In the Heights” the musical”, “Patti Cake$”, “Monsters and Men”, “A Star is Born”, “Godzilla King of the Monsters”, “Trolls World Tour”, and “The Honest Thief” , he also appeared on Younger, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Will & Grace, and Elena of Avalor”), film also stars Lin-Manuel Miranda, Stephanie Beatriz, Dascha Polanco (“Orange is the new black”, “The Cobbler”, “Gimme Shelter”, “The Irishman”, “The Perfect Match”,  “The Assassination of Gianni Versace”, “Russian Doll”, “When They See Us”, “NYC 22”, and “Evil”). Stephanie Beatriz (“Short Term 12”, “You’re Not You, “Pee-Wee’s Big Holiday”, “Closure”, “Ice Age Collision Course”, “The Light of the Moon”, “Half Magic”, “The Lego Movie”, “Brooklyn Nine-Nine”, “Hello Ladies”, “Top Chef”) she has done both voiceover and major television and film roles.
Corey Hawkins he starred in a slew of hit films (“Digital Antiquities”, “Allegiance”, “Iron Man 3”, “Non-Stop”, “Romeo and Juliet”, “Straight Outta Compton”, “Kong: Skull Island”, “Blackkklansman”, “Georgetown”, “6 Underground”, “24: Legacy”, “The Walking Dead”, and has had several theater roles like “Romeo & Juliet”, and “Six Degrees of Separation”.)
Last but certainly not least is Jimmy Smitts (Star Wars III, The Jane Austen Club, Backyard, Mother and Child, The Get Down, Brooklyn Nine-Nine,  How to get away with murder, Rogue One, Who we are now, well known television and film actor will be starring in In the Heights) and makes an appearance.
            Everyone is so excited and so pumped to see the movie I personally wouldn’t mind going back to see the play again first before seeing the movie. Loved it and I hope all of the fans will come out and will see this film this summer. Book your tickets early and go see it this June 26, 2020 In the Heights comes to a theater near you worldwide.  Visit http://www.broadway.com and http://www.broadwaymusicalhome.com/intheheights 



The Original Manhattanite's Celebrity Crush Top 30


















and I had to do this because I have so many photos in all of my phones it’s crazy. As a blogger you have to have images right? So I have to make sure I provide my readers with images too. Happy to give the ladies and some gentlemen (no judgment) some eye candy so I am happy to do this piece. These are my MCE-Man Crush Everyday not just one day a week for me lol….They could be my boo anytime if they were single or taking a break lol. Here are my top 30 gentlemen yes ladies I said 30 you’re welcome America.….now I am aware some of these men are taken ladies, they are either married, in serious relationships, dating, and some may be single, and some have families. So remember it’s just a crush that’s it…..now if something pops off in the future that’s between me, him, God, and destiny…..if it’s written in the stars you never know. Ladies and gentlemen have fun reading about my top 30 Celebrity Crushes

1.   
  Tremaine Aldon “Trey Songz” Neverson -Zodiac Sign: Sagittarius born November 28, 1984-Height: 6’2” born in Petersburg, Virginia, USA
I have written about him before he is an actor, a songwriter, a philanthropist, a singer, and now a father to an adorable little boy Noah who was just born in spring of 2019 last year. So proud and happy for him because we all heard in his lyrics he wanted to be a father and he wanted that opportunity so badly to raise a family and child. I have seen the photos and yes he is so doing a fantastic job with his firstborn.  Now why is he my MCE have you seen his abdominals lol….not just that but incredibly intelligent, razor sharp, great health acumen he doesn’t play when it comes to fitness and health. You see it in his performance and he takes the gym very seriously just as he does with his music career.  Trey is the kind of guy seeing him from his interviews online and on television you need to know about what’s going on around the world and be able to bring something to the table. Plus he loves to have fun and laugh. It’s not just physical with this man you can tell he can handle a great conversation and loves to joke around as well. I love that he’s not afraid to show his vulnerability in his song lyrics or music while performing. He appreciates women and respects them completely.

2.      
    Luke Evans- Zodiac Sign: Aries- born April 15, 1979 Ponty pool, United Kingdom, Welsh Broadway actor, singer, Height: 6’0” feet
Huge crush first saw him in Fast and the Furious 6 and was instantly curious who is this guy. Turns out he is a theater and film actor with many hits under his belt. He has also performed in Miss Saigon the Broadway play and he was in the live action film where played Gaston in Disney’s “Beauty and the Beast”. He strikes me as a real gentlemen, classy, well traveled, and he can sing so he’s versatile and brings a lot to the table ladies and gentlemen =).  

3.    Lance Gross-Zodiac Sign: Cancer-born July 8, 1981, Oakland, California, actor, model, and photographer, Height: 6’0 feet. I fell in love with this Chocolate Delight of a man when he starred in the television show Tyler Perry’s “House of Paynes” (2011-2015) he played the Paynes only son college graduate, Calvin Payne on the family television series.  In real life he’s a HBCU college graduate of Howard University.
There is something about Calvin the character on the show that showed African American men in a light where you see he had a great relationship with his parents who were together for a long-term marriage. He stepped up to the plate no matter what the challenge was with his family, a neighbor, a friend, or even his television wife. He found a way to get out of every scenario. I liked that about the character he was “the-boy-next door” who wasn’t the perfect son but was very relatable and down to earth. Now Lance Gross the man and actor has evolved displaying his acting chops in many different projects “Our Family Wedding”, “Deuces” “Temptation”, “Grey’s Anatomy”, “Star”, you can see the versatility in him as actor. He also become a thriving photographer shooting for Essence Magazine and Essence’s You Tube channel. So look out for that when you’re watching You Tube.
Larenz Tate Zodiac Sign: Virgo- born September 8, 1975-Chicago, Illinois, television and film actor Height: 5’7” you know him as “O Dog” from Dead Presidents, The Inkwell, Menace to Society, Why do fools fall in love, Crash, Love Jones, Ray, Deuces ….Larenz has always been a crush of mine because of his swag, personality, and confidence. You can see him a mile away and just cool confidence comes off of him right away. He’s the guy who can play any character a director throws at him. I haven’t seen him play many villain roles but I am sure he would do it justice. I fell in love with this handsome gentlemen when he starred in the film, “The Inkwell”. I loved the vulnerability and depth he displayed when you watch him in this movie….there’s no more Larenz there you see him as an actor playing someone with flaws, vulnerable, emotional, and just this sweet kid articulating his emotions. He’s a character full of heart and you see it in this film he’s just a good teenager who wants to be respectful and see his parents together. Watch him in all of his films you’ll see why this man should never be slept on at all. He brings every character to life in different ways.

5.    Derrick (Jackson) Jaxn-Zodiac Sign: Cancer –July 4, 1989-Yonkers, New York , athlete, writer, poet, You Tuber, Philanthropist, “The Love Ambassador”, and Entrepreneur  Height: 6’5” . Ok I love a renaissance man and this gentlemen definitely has the confidence, spark, he’s witty, funny, can be facetious at times, but he knows how to be open and real with you. You would think a Cancer would want to hide in his shell. Not this guy he will keep it real with you and tell you the truth right away. I fell in love with his YouTube channel about 3 years ago in the summer of 2017. Derrick came into my life when I needed to repair my heart after a crazy break up and job loss. I had a crazy year and his YouTube channel was one of the best channels that came into my life. He’s definitely in my top 5 I watch like crazy taking his advice gems along the way. He reminds me you’re valuable, precious, worth so much more than what the average man or woman may think they are worth. So when this You Tube channel came in it was one of those miracles I was happy to witness that year. So Derrick who is now a father and husband. Ladies trust and believe this young man is one of those people you need his honest and real advice. He speaks volumes in a matter of 5-10 minutes or more.  Follow him on IG, YouTube, and yes you can purchase his games, his books online.  He gives back to the community in a huge way and does it with flair, finesse, style, and a presents a message of positivity.


6.    Justin Randall Timberlake Zodiac Sign: Aquarius-January 31, 1981, Actor, Singer, Songwriter, Entrepreneur, Television Producer, Fashion Designer-Memphis, Tennessee Height: 6’2”. Okay all of the millennial ladies the 80s babies who remember when N’SYNC came out and when Justin went solo with “Justified” was a time we will never forget. The Blue-Eyed Soul gentlemen has evolved completely as an artist and more. Was just watching one of his films recently and was just a reminder of where he came from and where he has evolved from as a child performer. He has a way of capturing you in his lyrics, he writes original songs that you just get right away. I think since that first album he got me hooked on his music. I have been a fan of his since I was about 12 but when he went solo definitely thought it was a genius idea that he wanted to try a few solo projects on his own you got to see his skills and his exposure to music. He’s not just involved in the lyrics and production he really has an incredible ear and loves live performances of all instruments. I have too many favorite songs by him. 

7.     David Jude Heyworth Law stage name (Jude Law) Zodiac Sign: Capricorn-born December 29, 1972, Actor, Lewisham, London, England Height” 5’10”. “Hey Jude”…I am sure I am not the only woman who has probably made that joke to the Englishborn gentlemen. Ok what’s it about Jude…..star presence, his blue eyes, the smile. I saw him in “Alfie” it was a 21st century remake of the classic film from the 1960s and then I saw him in “Closer” and then “The Holiday” was the movie that really made my crush strong and solidified. How could you not like this man…he looks great in a suit and ladies of all shades can’t keep their eyes off of him. All of the ladies love Jude so look out for this English gentlemen.


8.     Alfred Langston, “Finesse” Mitchell actor, author, and stand up comedian-born on June 12, 1972 in Atlanta, Georgia Zodiac sign: Gemini the twins Height: 6’0”. I saw “Finesse” I believe I was watching “The Real” and was instantly hooked on this handsome Gemini. He’s currently on tour performing and has a few television hits already on FOX make sure you tune in. I needed to put a couple of comedians in come on I love to laugh and joke. So I needed someone who can make all of you all laugh too.

9.     Mehcad Jason McKinley Brooks, actor, former fashion model, born Austin, Texas born October 25, 1980 Zodiac sign: Scorpio Height: 6’4” . I saw him on “Desperate Housewives” and wanted to know “Who is this man?” you’ve seen him in many different television series and film projects. He just did an incredible performance on Netflix with Tyler Perry’s “A Fall from Grace”. He was unrecognizable within the film you wouldn’t know it was him at all. He engulfed himself in this role.

10. Christian Keyes, actor and model,  born July 24, 1975 Zodiac Sign: Leo, Height: 6’3” born in Detroit, Michigan. My friend and I we both have a huge crush on this guy. I saw him I believe in a film called “Dysfunctional Friends” actually about 8 years ago and was instantly drawn to him right away. All of the ladies cannot keep their eyes off Christian. He is another performer you can’t see him just as a good guy in his roles. He versatile as well he can bring a lot to his roles and offer different sides of personalities and more. You can see Christian on Bounce Television’s “Saints and Sinners” and many other different films.


11. Willard Carroll Smith, American rapper, producer, songwriter, and actor, born September 25, 1968 , Philadelphia, Pennsylvania Height: 6’2” . Born in West Philadelphia the superstar who has evolved from a Grammy Award winning rap/hip hop artist and songwriter to a Oscar nominated actor. When you look up the definition versatile virtuoso that’s the best way to describe “Will Smith” the actor and performer. He has starred in a ton of hits and I fell in love with this gentlemen I am going to say when he was a 22-year-old kid performing on a little show called, “Fresh Prince of Bel Air”. I knew ok I want a guy like him when I grew up on an episode he had with Nia Long. I was like “Ok, yes I need a guy like him when I grow up” charming, funny, giving, loving, and social butterfly. He has a way of transforming himself into a role he often says it takes some time to shake off a role for him. He has to give himself a chance to get back to the Will we all love if it’s role that requires more insight and depth. We love Will and when he’s just the funny, talented, and swaggerific man. Make sure you go see “Bad Boys for Life” in theaters now and look out for other projects.

12. Henry Ewan Golding television and film actor, model, born February 5, 1987 Zodiac Sign: Aquarius, born in Betong, Malaysia Height: 6’1”. He’s got the good lucks that make all of the ladies swoon and I believe he is another actor who doesn’t want to subject himself to one role to be typecast. He believes in versatility and showing all sides of what it takes to be a great actor. I saw Henry in “Crazy Rich Asians” and all of the ladies wanted to be Constance Wu in this film he was romantic, charming, adorable, and just had a presence of a royal Asian king. Look out for Henry in “The Gentlemen” is out right now!

13. 
Boris Frederic Cecil Tay-Natey Ofatey- Kodjoe television and film actor, philanthropist, model, born on March 8, 1973 Zodiac Sign: Pisces born in Vienna, Austria Height: 6’4”. Ok I have talked about Boris a couple of times I had the pleasure and honor of seeing his queen, Nicole Ari Parker in person when she was performing on Broadway during a press junket for “Cat on a hot tin roof” and was just stunning in person. Boris has been one of my crushes since I was probably about 15 I am going to say when Soul Food on Showtime and whenever I see him in a film or television project everyone in my house knows so I am there to watch. He’s also philanthr and a humanitarian giving back to charity and assisting with his organization to support babies and children who were born with spina bifida is one of the causes that will pull everyone’s heart strings. By the way he multilingual speaker speaking French, German, English, and I believe Swahili as well. So ladies now you see why he’s on this list. He’s an international speaker he can talk to you in several love languages.

14. Ismael Enrique Cruz Cordova, film, television, and stage actor, Aguas Buenas, Puerto Rico born on April 7, 1987 Zodiac Sign: Aries I saw this handsome gentlemen in the film, “Miss Bala” came out last winter in 2019 and he stole the show opposite Gina Rodriguez. He has the captivating presence on the big screen and you really believe him in a role. He has star quality in a big way in that role. So look out for Ismael definitely would love to see him crossover into all genres of films in the future.


15.  Loutelious “T.J.” Holmes-  born in West Memphis, Arkansas he is a television broadcast journalist, for BET, CNN, and WABC Networks birthday: August 19, 1977- Zodiac sign: Leo. I have had a crush on him probably since I first saw him doing a live broadcast on television he was covering a story probably during the 2008 election and always thought he was very handsome. Not only that but as an aspiring journalist you always look for inspiration everywhere and he definitely has the confidence, swag, and intellect to cover any great story to the public. Men like him make women like me realize there’s so much more than the physical package you need someone to debate and discuss different topics with in the end. You can figure out how to be a power couple and solve the world’s problems together. He is the kind of man you can challenge each other.

16. Klay Alexander Thompson born February 8, 1990  in Los Angeles, CA Height: 6’6” Zodiac Sign: Aquarius, professional basketball player. This handsome cutie is a shooting guard and one of the best in the NBA he was a 2011 NBA draft pick for Golden State Warriors, 3 time champion of the NBA Finals in 2015, 2017, and 2018, NBA Three-Point Contest Champion in 2019, and NBA  All Defensive Second Team. He is also very generous supporting and raising money to assist the 2017 California wildfires and other charities behind the scenes. He is an avid chess player and has met with chess world champions too. It turns out someone in my family actually knows his family and his a slight connection. So you never know lol just need to open up the right door on that one.

17. The late great, Paul Walker (September 12, 1973-November 13, 2013) he was a Virgo and 6’2 inches tall. He will always be bae to me lol those Aquamarine blue eyes….I have had a crush on him since I was about 12 since “Varsity Blues” and “the Skulls” came out so you can imagine when Fast and Furious the franchise started lost my damn mind lol. There is a picture of me about age 14 and yes I was that girl I had a wall full of pictures on my bedroom wall of all my favorite celebrities. I still have a crush on him and may name one of my pets after him “Walker” or after one of his characters in a film.

18.  Robert Christopher Riley born October 11, 1980, an American film and television Trinidadian actor, from Brooklyn, New York Height: 6’2” Zodiac sign: Libra. I noticed Robert in the 2016 movie, “Perfect Match” starring Cassie and Terrence J. He played one of Terrence’s best friends in the film and he definitely stood out to me. He had great comedic timing in the film and of course the ladies know very easy on the eyes. Robert is currently on CW and Netflix’s hit revival of “Dynasty” and will be in many up and coming roles in the future.

19. Terrence Jenkins aka “Terrence J” born April 21, 1982 zodiac sign: Taurus Queens, New York Height: 5’10” television, radio, former E Entertainment and BET entertainment reporter, and actor. Terrence wears many hats I think I had a crush on him when I saw him on 106 and Park but it got more serious when he switched over to E Entertainment.  I can’t lie when I saw him in the movie “Perfect Match” Terrence kind of got me there was something about seeing him in a different light on screen. You didn’t see him as a reporter anymore you kind of saw the real him a vulnerable, cool, and creative side of him. There’s something about him in that role where many ladies probably wanted to be his girlfriend.

20.Lamman Rucker, born October 6, 1971, Pittsburgh, PA Zodiac Sign: Libra. I noticed Lamman on the television hit show, “Meet the Browns” but I noticed him in other films and television projects too. I saw him in one movie, “The Man in 3B” and “Why did I get married 1 and 2” and I think we all wanted him to rescue us and be our sheriff ever since he was in the film. So Lamman definitely a fan and hope to see you in other film, television, and other projects in the future. You can catch him currently as a Jacob he’s on OWN’s “Greenleaf”.

21. 
Wendell Ramone “Jay” Ellis, television, film actor, and model born: December 29, 1981  Zodiac sign: Capricorn, Height: 6’2” I first saw him on the BET hit television show, “The Game” he followed up with a huge HBO television series, “Insecure” starring breakout actress, Issa Rae. He will also be a part of the 1987 remake, “Top Gun” which comes out this summer 2020. Jay Ellis was recently asked about his role on “Insecure” in an interview SSENSE and I loved his responsible how the millennial African American role has evolved for actors. How African American men are reflected and how they can let their guard down. They don’t have be depicted as just killers, kidnappers, thugs, they can let their guard down and can be more exposed to other roles. They can be college students, business owners, doctors, athletes, and other professions whether they are performing or strive for that goal in real life. So he understands the importance of writing a great character for a television project and role is important especially for the younger audience who look to emulate people on television.

22. Cullen Andrew Jones born in the Bronx, New York on February 29,1984 height: 6’4” Zodiac Sign: Pisces    Olympic swimmer. I actually found out about Cullen Jones online on myspace. (Jesus I can’t believe how long ago that was…) but Cullen is extremely handsome, articulate, classy man but you can tell he knows how to have fun as well. Cullen has swag, he’s smooth, articulate, and he’s the guy you can bring home to any festivity or event. He’s well traveled and worldly. Plus he can just be down to earth too.

23. Channing Tatum dancer, singer, entrepreneur, actor, born on April 26, 1980 in Cullman, Alabama Height: 6’1” Zodiac Sign: Taurus. I spotted Channing Tatum in the film “Coach Carter” but he really took me for surprise in the film, “Step Up” in 2006 he starred in the role who would become his future wife, Jenna Dewan and he has taken us all for a ride with this massive franchise. Step Up is probably another one of the biggest dance franchises I have seen other than with his other huge roles he has been in “21 Jump Street”, “22 Jump Street” “Dear John”, “Magic Mike 1 and 2” he killed that role which led to Magic Mike Live in Las Vegas is still going actually and grown ladies can see a live performance in person. Channing some ladies call “White Chocolate” because of his confidence, stature, and presence. Make sure you stay tuned and look out for more films in the future with this handsome blue eyed soul.

24.  Courtney Burrell born August 20, 1986 actor, model from North Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Height: 6’2 Zodiac Sign: Leo he has starred in television, films, and commercials you may have seen Courtney throwing free throws playing basketball and didn’t even realize this up and coming star would be performing in a Tyler Perry hit film. Courtney signed up in a role to play one of the sons in Tyler’s last Madea film, “A Madea Funeral” in 2019. I noticed him right away he got to play the “bad boy” in this film and brought the intensity in this role. I would say look out for this handsome star in many other projects with Tyler’s productions and many others in the very near future.

25. 
Lamon Dezjon Archey born on April 9, 1981 in Daly City, California Zodiac Sign: Aries, Height: 6’2 television  actor, model stars on “Days of Our Lives” I liked him immediately just a couple of weeks I saw him I am a bit of a Days of our lives fan and I spotted him with his fellow actress, he plays her love interest. How can you not like this gentlemen he also has 12 tattoos. I love my men with the tattoos.

26. Trevor Noah he is a comedian, television commentator, host, of the “Daily Show”, Height: 5’11” Birth date: February 20, 1984 born in Johannesburg, South Africa Zodiac Sign: Pisces and love how witty, intellectual, genuine, real, and funny he is while performing or informing the public about the cues we may miss when it comes to this mainstream media and news on political topics. Love a man who you can discuss a whole plethora of topics with means he is well informed, a thinker, he cares and is deeply passionate about change, progression, believes in hope, prosperity, and productivity for the future. Plus he’s hilarious so he knows how to be witty, edgy, funny, and he’s cool with just grabbing some tacos and having a ball. So I had to add him to this fun list.

27.Trevor Jackson singer, television, film actor, born in Indianapolis, Indiana on August 30, 1996 Zodiac Sign: Virgo Height: 6’2” he has been featured as Aaron Jackson on “Blackish” and “Grownish” on the Freeform Network, Syfy original networks. Trevor has had several singles released of his music you can follow him on social media and download his music and see his videos on YouTube.

28. Jason Joel Desrouleaux known by his stage name “Jason Derulo” is a Haitian American singer, dancer, actor, and songwriter born on September 21, 1989 Zodiac sign: Virgo, Height: 6’0” has 30 million singles worldwide, “Whatcha Say”, “In my Head”, “Trumpets”, “Would you marry me?”,

29.Jeremy P Felton known by his stage name as Jeremih born on July 17, 1987 Zodiac sign: Cancer born in Chicago, Illinois Height: 6’2”  he is a songwriter, singer, rapper, and record producer you may remember a few of hits a songtitle that makes me and many other ladies blush when you hear it, “Birthday Sex” which came out back in 2009 was Jeremih’s breakout hit that took his music career to the next level.

30. All 3 Ryans-Ryan Phillipe, Ryan Reynolds, and Ryan Gosling lol…..then we are done!



The first Ryan.....Ryan Reynolds is a Canadian actor, comedian, film producer, and screenwriter, born on October 23, 1976 zodiac sign: Libra-Scorpio born on the cusp, Height: 6’2”Loved Ryan since he was in the movie "Just Friends" came out in 2005 you can watch it on Netflix too. 


 Matthew Ryan Phillipe born in New Castle, Delaware on September 10, 1974 Zodiac Sign: Virgo Height: 5’9 American television film actor. I have had a crush on Ryan I probably have mentioned it twice on my blog since high school seeing him in Cruel Intentions the original film. So love and adore him since then he has evolved into a well seasoned actor performing in many different hit films. So as you can see I guess your crushes evolve with you.

Ryan Thomas Gosling born on November 12, 1980 in London, Canada zodiac sign: Scorpio Height: 6’0” is an actor and musician who started out with a couple of people on this list actually as a Mickey Mouse mouseketeer on Disney’s the Mickey Mouse Club and has become an Oscar nominated and he’s a Golden Globe winner for one of my favorite movies by him “La La Land” ok I am a little bias because I love him in a few movies I had to add him in here.















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