Monday, April 21, 2014

Oh no it's The Other Woman, The film coming this April 25th

Hello My Readers!!!! The Other Woman is coming to movie theaters this spring worldwide starring the beautiful and talented, Cameron Diaz ("The Mask", "Charlie's Angels", "My Sister's Keeper", "There's something about Mary"), Leslie Mann ( "Knocked Up", "Big Daddy", ), mega conglomerate singer, fashion designer, and now actress, Nicki Minaj, and Sports Illustrated model now actress, Kate Upton on April 25, 2014 Friday. 
The Other Woman humph who does she think she is right? She's stealing my significant other, my boo, my husband/my wife, my girlfriend/boyfriend my baby, etc. I am saying that because technically you have to be open to all kinds of relationships now a days. I know the movie is titled "The Other Woman" but there are many cases of "The Other Man" too you know what I am talking about ladies hahahaha!!!! Thought I would side only with the females nope I know some people can be guilty of committing that love crime on both sides. So let's discuss the "Other Woman" for a minute I am going to cover all aspects in different scenarios. First from her side/ Then the opposite side/and then we'll go into the scenarios. 

Okay the other woman can come in all different forms, I am not trying to scare anyone but it's just something to be conscientious of in your relationships. She may be your neighbor, she can be your classmate (this applies to college students undergraduate, graduate, and post-graduate students), she can be the girl at the checkout counter, the lady who comes to walk your dogs, your co-worker (uh oh), your banker, your lawyer, your accountant, or even your professor (now for some people that's just wrong come on now you know you shouldn't be doing that), she can be right in your family too, you never know but let's just put it this way. The Other Woman has a reputation for being "the homewrecker" when it comes to a marital affair for example.  She can intervene and cause havoc. She wants to be competitive against you,  If she's a sane, normal individual when she finds out that he's been cheating she will back out. Now if she's crazy, psycho, and has some screws loose, lol!!! She may stay hooked on this person and either stalk or intervene in the relationship until she gets what she wants. That's crazy and will cause problems for everyone. The Other Woman comes from all walks of life you will be surprised. You're all wondering have you ever been the "other woman" Honey Brown Sugar. Lol...I can tell you this if I was someone was clever enough to hide it. That's all I will say. 


Now if she's just naive and just let's just say it not that bright, she needs to have someone sit down with her and realize honey he/she is taken and they don't want to be involved with you at the moment. It's unfortunate but you have to accept it. You have to realize there is something so much better out there for you, and he really does exist believe me. It just takes a lot of time to get to a better person. 



The official trailer for "The Other Woman" 


Now I will tell you the main chick's Who is the Main chick?  (the wife, "the wifey", your fiancee, your steady girlfriend) here is her  perspective you invested your time, your patience, you put all this money, love, focus, attention,  into the relationship, and your heart broken to know he/she is cheating on you. Your upset because he/she was inconsiderate, he/she was unfaithful, he/she didn't come to you honestly, and just say "I am not happy", "I need more", "You aren't giving me what I want". That's what it really is about, you are not being fulfilled emotionally, physically, mentally, intellectually, and you haven't had a chance to really think what is this person not giving me to be fulfilled.  So  now you know the view from the woman who has been on both ends you have to realize that it's not fair to anyone at all. No one wants to be hurt period but you have to remember that at the end of the day it's not fair at all. We all experience the hurt but let me put it to you this way, the only time you should be the other woman is when it's a shock, not by choice, that speaks volumes of who you are as a person, like I really don't give a ______ period. Now who wants to be that woman not I. I would never want to hurt my significant other either. Too much pain, tears, drama it's not worth it. It's better to fight over something silly, than another human being. Especially when they are intentionally trying to hurt you, your family, and everyone else important to you. So my friends are you going to see "The Other Woman" I will because hey it's a lesson to be learned in this film, and it looks hilarious, funny, as well with a great cast. So ladies take your friends, grab your moms, (mother's day is coming up), your sisters, your grandmas (hey they have been there too), your aunties, and go see "The Other Woman" this spring, and ladies please be smart pay attention to the signs and use your brains you know better. Stay classy =) and all the best to you and yours. 


Just an update as of May 12th it's been a couple of weeks and all ready they have grossed 9.6 Million at the box office congratulations ladies, the cast, crew, and production team, cannot wait to see the film myself. 
 



Monday, April 14, 2014

You have to play the game in order to find love- read "The Love Playbook" by Lala Anthony

Finally a book for the ladies written by a young lady who gives her perspective and view on how ladies should conduct themselves in relationships whether long-term, short-term, married, engaged, and so on. I actually feel really comfortable taking advice from her because she's not only smart,  business-savvy, she's driven, motivated, sophisticated, and stylish. Plus she's a born New Yorker (like me lol). I am talking about Alani "LaLa" Vasquez-Anthony .
Carmelo Anthony & LaLa Vasquez Anthony


Family outing at Serendipity LaLa, Carmelo, and Kiyan Anthony 

One of the most down-to-earth people in the media/entertainment business. She's gone from radio to television with TRL (Total Request Live) on MTV, hosting several reality television show specials,  and now with her own reality television show, "La La's Full Court" debuted in 2010 , her own makeup line, Motives, and also actress she has been on VH-1's "Single Ladies", and starred in "Think Like A Man" 1 and 2 also "Baggage Claim", and developed  her own clothing line,  Fifth & Mercer in stores now. Now the hazel-eyed beauty has added author to her resume. She has written this fantastic book which does now give "Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man" a run for its money now. It's the female response to the book in a way, you use both, and you will be as equally well informed on both books. Her book "The Love Playbook" written along with Karen Hunter (that's my college professor my readers I am so proud xoxo to her). Very well known journalist and writer! =)
Tune into her show on VH-1 


Kelly Rowland supporting her friend, Lala during her book signing


Lala at book reading at Barnes & Noble for book tour 
Favorite quote of the movie love it but its true.

I cannot wait to dive into this information and dig in as well. I am looking forward to it and am always behind authors especially on topics we could can all relate to. So she gives you the complete 411 on how you deal with your mate, especially since she has been in the spotlight for 15 plus years in the game. She knows the ins and outs of what goes on in the clubs, on the basketball courts, the parties, the music scene, the movie and television scene. She knows how to fill us all in on what to do next when it comes to after meeting that special person. So I suggest you get to your next bookstore and go support Carmelo Anthony's wife! Lol, get your read on and make sure you go see "Think Like A Man 2" this summer 2014, and watch "LaLa's Full Court"  on VH-1 visit  http://www.vh1.com  and http://www.motivescosmetics.com, and check out her clothing line fifth and mercer as well which is doing very well in stores. Check out http://www.shopbop.com 
Go see this movie!!!! and support her and the stars you know you want to =)!

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Wendy wants to swoon you with "Hold Me in Contempt" this spring

Ah spring love is the in air  just in time to enjoy this novel that my girl, Wendy Williams wrote. I watch her show avidly whenever I am home, I have a break from work, on vacation, on holiday, I try to stay updated because I definitely support her and I am behind her for what she has done for the "Honey Brown Sugar" girls around the world, and women in media and communications period. I have read Wendy's books in the past, remember "Wendy Brings the Heat" which was part autobiography, part business about the radio industry, and part how to break in if you want to be a radio personality/media personality.  I have even promoted her once during college for a friend's magazine called, Fashion Fetish. He was trying to start a magazine on campus and needed writers. He was familiar with her and asked would I cover her story. Absolutely, she and I actually know some of the same people in a way. So we're kind of connected in a way and of course I used to blast her show "The Wendy Williams Experience" on WBLS 107.5 Radio station on its speakers.  So yes I had to write her story. I loved it so did my parents. I wish I still had a copy of the magazine but I am glad it's in good hands now. 

So now that she is taking a new path down the romance aisle, I want to know how the 5'11" Glamorous New Jersey native and diva feels about romance and how she penned the novel, also her take on the two lead characters. I am very excited and cannot wait to sit and read this book. I am looking forward to buying it and diving into the world of the lead characters, Kimberly Kind and King fall in love in this story. Should be scandalous darling! 

So for my Wendy fans and viewers hope you all will be diving into the world of romance with your copy, you can order online at http://www.amazon.com, visit http://www.barnesandnoble.com, or visit your local bookstore around and check it out. Cannot wait to read. 
It hits stores this spring on April 15, 2014. Just in time for you to get your tax refunds and go buy! Just kidding. Hope you will enjoy and also tune into her show weekdays on FOX/UPN networks  here in thet tri-state (New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut)  or check your local listings wherever you are around the world cause now she's global and "How you doin'?" Also make sure you follow her on twitter @WendyWilliams, Facebook, and Instagram too. Also to get tickets for her popular talk show here in New York City visit http://www.wendyshow.com for a great time!!!!




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