Friday, March 12, 2021

It's Women's History Month here are 40 Influential Women who influenced me in the past and in 2021.




















Which women have influenced you or do you connect to? (in honor of Women’s History Month) Diverse women from all ages and backgrounds There are thousands of women who influenced me in my life it may have been an act of kindness, a word of encouragement, we have spent time, or I have attended a concert, seen a show on television or on live streaming on my computer or mobile device, whether if they were influencing people with their personal clothing style, their contribution to society, the positive choices they have made to influence little girls, teenagers, young women, and grown women to be better, to speak up, to fight for injustice, to be nurturing, to read, to write, to go to that audition, to cook, to attend and complete high school, to finish college, and to make the right choices in their personal lives. There are so many of you around the globe in all 7 continents who are incredible and dynamic. I would be here probably with a list of a million women who are incredible and have made an impact. It would be “the million women in society” list but I realize it would have to be a book. So, I am going to limit it to 40 women will be a great way to pay tribute to them. I will write about the next 40 next year I have a list of people in my mind who I know will be perfect until I can complete that book one day. So, in honor of Women’s History Month and Women’s Day here is my first list…Women in Society who influenced me and you too. 





 1. THE 4 WOMEN IN MY LIFE-who influenced me the most…my great-grandmother Margie Catherine Wall-Golden-Joplin-Gillespie., my paternal grandmother, Carlene Imogene Dubard, my maternal grandmother, Shirley Mae Golden-Worthy, and my mother of course, Gina Renee Golden. Family always comes first many people have told me so I can’t even put them last. My mother, two grandmothers, and my great-grandmother have been such a big part of my existence. They have taught me about strength, confidence, loyalty, how to be a lady, it’s ok to be tough, to be a lady, to have friends of all different backgrounds, to help people who need us the most, compassion ran through and still runs through each of these women. My late great-grandmother, Margie Catherine Wall-Golden-Joplin-Gillespie was born June 16, 1922 in St. Louis, Mo she grew to be about 5 feet 5 inches, dark brown eyes, long brown hair that later became silver curls I want to say had a toughness, sweetness, a strength that was overwhelming. I look at some days I spent time with her and it showed in her every move. Her story was pretty incredible she was the woman who taught me about versatility, grace, physical strength. She taught me very early in life how important it is to stay fit, healthy, mentally fit at a very young age. I started visiting her when I was a little baby but when I started visiting more frequently during my formative years. I didn’t realize how much of an influence she really was on all of the women in my family. Just how staying physically, mentally, spiritually healthy and also deeply rooted to your family. “Mama Margie” was and is never far from my thoughts. She is definitely a big part of our family and will continue to be for many generations to come. The biggest virtue I learned from her was patience. I didn’t realize how much that virtue would play a huge part of my childhood, teenage years, and even now in my adult life. Carlene Imogene Dubard she was born September 9, 1928 in Jacksonville, Florida, she came to Brooklyn, New York with her mother Geneva in 1947 she was the epitome of a go getter, there were no excuses in her book. She would take names if anyone tried her and spoke out of turn. I just remember my earliest memories are seeing her in white pantyhose, white nursing shoes, her scrubs, or white dress she was working in the Clinton Hill section of Brooklyn and then also had a second job too. She retired in the spring of 1990 but always was busy, taking care of her children, grandchildren, her home, helped her friends, and community. I just remember her taking me clothes shopping when I was a little girl sometimes, we would be hours in a store or a shopping mall. She took care of me and always stepped in if my father was around and I needed a female role or female’s perspective. She was an amazing cook, hilarious, feisty, and had a mental and physical strength that was out of this world. My maternal grandmother, Shirley Mae Golden-Worthy who is also another woman who is my heart. We celebrated her milestone 80th birthday last year and kept it small due to the pandemic and praying for a grander celebration later this year or in the near future. She taught us all about staying financially frugal, independence, dignity, self-worth, love, enjoying life, laughing. She never takes herself too seriously, and to stay beautiful at every age. Her generosity has the biggest influence on me how important it is to stay kind good to people of all walks of life. My great-grandmother (her mother) really instilled that in us without even really having to say it. She just showed us how we were blessed and we had to pay it forward. She has taught me and really been an influence on me even when I was starting out looking for jobs. The one memory that I will forever cherish is when she told me to join the 2012 presidential election campaign to volunteer, I had been a volunteer before for 2008 election but to actually be in one of my hometowns and participate in person in Washington, D.C. That really changed my life, my respect for her grew in a way. Sometimes people don’t realize you’re changing your child, your grandchild or grandchildren’s lives when you take them places, when you introduce them to new opportunities. That’s the greatest gift other than life a grandmother or grandfather can do is showing or teaching their grandchildren say “Ok baby walk on out there cause the world is big and there’s a whole lot to do out there. It’s yours and you can change it.” My mother, Gina Renee Golden born on October 3, 1959 in St. Louis, Missouri is a business woman, a former salesperson for radio, television broadcasting, background actress, I think of her and a lifetime of memories touch my heart, come to my mind and I am flooded with so many that it’s overwhelming in joy, love, laughter, lessons, mistakes, teachable moments, and life changing moments. My mother is my team…she is my teammate, my angel, my friend, the original hairstylist, the original therapist, and so much more. So, she’s my world. Her influence on me I think the biggest one is never judge anyone. Stay compassionate I see it in her when I think of all of her friends: her childhood friends, her high school, college friends, business associates, mentors, former coworkers, and more. I would say she really isn’t judgmental. You have to know the root of who she is and where she has come from. In order to fully understand her and the woman she is too. She has taught me to keep an open mind because you never know who’s going to come in your life and open doors for you. Doors that will take you to your dreams and goals. My grandmother Carlene would tell me on the phone. “Are you sure you want to leave your mom? You guys are a team”. I didn’t realize it until she said it, I was like she’s right. We have become a team so if someone drops the ball or if there’s something, we can do to resolve an issue we handle it. No matter what happens when it comes in my relationships as I grow as a woman and come into my full womanhood. I have to keep the bond between my mother and I tight. She’s my touchstone and reminds me of where I have been and where I should be going. I always tell my father you couldn’t have picked a more beautiful person as my mother. I laugh every time he tells me how they met and fell in love when they were in college. He did great! So yes, my mom will always have an influence on me of showing compassion to people. So, from those four women I learned: Patience, Strength, Generosity, and Compassion. 
I love this photo has such significance to me it's my great-grandmother, Margie, age 18 and my great-great-grandmother, Bessie, 34 sitting having dinner with these ladies. I believe my great-grandmother was pregnant in the photo with my grandmother, Shirley this was taken June 1940. 



Me, my mother, and my grandmother, Shirley


My Mother love this photo of her I took the picture in NYC Summer 2011 right before we moved to Harlem, New York

My grandmother Carlene when she was in her late 20s. 






 2. Barbara Walters

born on September 25, 1929 in Boston, Massachusetts is the pioneer in the American broadcast journalism community. A woman who started and made her way on local stations in New York City. Became a huge part of the ABC family and the iconic show 20/20 as the head broadcaster, producer, and host of the show. Walters created the all-female talk show, “The View” which she found in 1997. Has become a multiple nominated show for 31 Emmy awards. She created content for women and men in politics, entertainment, home life, local, international news, social media, and more topics. The show we watch in my house and I just love how the diversity of each woman on the panel can contribute a whole plethora of ideas, opinions, and raise awareness around the world. Walters will forever be known as a television broadcaster who broke ground in media. Her influence opened the door for many women of all generations. 



 3. Katie Couric

born January 7, 1957 in Arlington County, Virginia she became interested in local news while studying in college submitting her reels and tapes to news and television stations growing up. Then eventually in the early 1990s she made it to the Today Show becoming the lead host with Matt Lauer, Bryant Gumbel, Al Roker. I think seeing her made me realize what it takes to become a seasoned journalist/reporter. You can have personality, you can be smart, intelligent, witty, but also its ok to not always play by the rules. It helps to have a sense of humor in this business. Especially when you are up tackling down tough topics. So, I admire her toughness and her fairness as a reporter. Definitely one of the best I grew up seeing as a child. My mother always had the show on early in the morning I remember the theme music. It’s bizarre every time I see the studio in Rockefeller Center, I am like that’s where one of my heroes made a name for herself. I get a little emotional it’s funny but it’s a great reminder dreams come true.



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Oprah Gail Winfrey born in Kosciusko, Mississippi on January 28, 1954 is the “Queen of Media” built a television network featuring sitcoms, dramas, informational television shows, reality television shows, shows featuring a variety of topics from Soul Sundays, Black Love, and self-improvement. Oprah has opened and broke down the door for a wide range of people from Dr. Phil, Rachael Ray, Dr. Oz, Gayle King, Ellen DeGeneres, Tyler Perry, and thousands of women and men who are working behind the scenes or on camera in film, movie, television broadcasting and production. Her influence made me realize there are no limitations you can open yourself to multiple roles if this what you have talent in, if this what you want to achieve, stay open to your calling and make this happen. 



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BeyoncĂ© Giselle Knowles-Carter was born on September 4, 1981 in Houston, Texas she became an inspiration to me I wanted to be the triple threat singing/dancing/acting and getting into the entertainment industry. I saw Destiny’s Child and I remember seeing this woman on either BET probably in other videos like who is she? Then I found out oh okay she’s a singer in a girl group that’s starting out and they are trying to become to the next Supremes. Well not only did they become the next Supremes they made a name for themselves in the 20th and 21st century. Later as I got older I started listening to her lyrics in “Bills Bills Bills”, “Say My Name”, “Bugaboo”, and realized ok she’s teaching girls and women about confidence then when she wrote “Bootylicious” the song that became a national verb in the American Webster’s dictionary it was a wrap. She celebrated women being comfortable and embracing their curves, their femininity, their bodies, and taking it in stride. I still listen to that album “Writings on the Wall” (1999) and “Survivor” (2001) just to remind myself you have these hips for a reason embrace your body. Never feel ashamed God gave them to us all for a reason. She was promoting body positivity in her lyrics. Her empowerment anthems like “Girls run the world”, “Flawless”, “Formation”, “Pretty Hurts”, “Irreplaceable”, “Best thing I never had”, “Diva”, and so many songs empower, encourage, and allow women to shine flawlessly like diamonds. She still influences me in my thirties now so I always have to salute “Queen Bey”, the queen of R&B/Pop/Dance because she will forever be known to women and society as a trailblazer for embracing our curves and owning being a woman. She taught us through her lyrics you can have it all and then some.



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Jeannie Mai born on January 4, 1979 in San Jose, California has become of the versatile Vietnamese-American women who knows how to wear hats she was originally a fashion stylist to the up and coming stars in their teens, twenties, and thirties starting out as a fashion stylist to young stars. Then she became a fashion correspondent for the Today Show and other magazine broadcast television show making appearances. She groomed herself on television production, interviewing techniques, and eventually made it over to “How do I look?” a show that was featured on E Network that was a makeover show taking women and men’s appearances from drab to fab! In 2013 she followed up and was offered an opportunity to become a talk show host for “the Real” teaming up with four other co-hosts. The Real has been renewed for an 8th season are scheduled to go all the way into 2022. These women have connected with women from all levels changing lives, helping women organize their lives, resolve common everyday issues, fashion, relationship, business issues, and save financially. Jeannie has proven to women it doesn’t matter if you are a fashion stylist you can add an additional slash on your resume.



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Jennifer Lynn Lopez born on July 24, 1969 in Castle Hill, New York a section in the upper part of the Bronx New York a little Puerto Rican girl and her two sisters lived with their parents, dancing, singing putting on shows in front of friends and family. Eventually the little girl realized how much she loved music, how much she loved to sing, dance, and act. She stepped on stage and loved how she felt when she could feel the crowd’s energy, the spotlight on her face, and becoming a different character. One day she found out about an audition hopped on the 6 subway went downtown and her life changed that day. Flash forward she’s the queen of slashes dancer/singer/songwriter/television producer/actress/fashion designer/mother of 2/fashion icon. “Queen of Slashes” and “Bronx Bombshell”. Jennifer influenced me because she made me realize a woman of color can multitask like no one’s business. She has an incredible work ethic and maintains her humility, her pride, dignity, and knows how to connect to her fans.




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Alicia Augello Cook-Dean who goes by her stage name “Alicia Keys” born on January 25, 1981 in Hell’s Kitchen, New York I heard her singing “Fallin'” her debut song on her debut album, “Songs in A Minor” in 2001. She will be celebrating the 20th anniversary of her album which was released on June 5, 2001 and her first recording breaking single on Billboard was on April 2, 2001 when she was 20 and she has become a phenomenal woman breaking records in the music industry. Alicia inspired me with her philanthropy not just her song lyrics and music. It was about how she started “Keep a Child Alive” her foundation that supports children and families affected by the HIV/AIDS epidemic. That’s what made me realize you can change the world a national problem with your voice, your brand, and your platform. You can step us a woman an everyday woman and change someone’s life. It’s that simple have a plan, a vision, a voice, and make the difference. So, Alicia makes people realize you can give hope and healing to the world. 




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 "The Notorious RBG" 
was given the name Joan Ruth Bader Ginsburg born on March 15, 1933 in Women’s History Month in Brooklyn, New York which is pretty ironic considering she would become the notorious RBG is her nickname and she has influenced women around the world in the judicial and legal system. She broke ground as one of the first Jewish female supreme court justice associates to serve in 1993. I knew about her but after watching more about her story “On the Basis of Sex” , learning how she was only 1 of 9 women to attend Harvard Business Law, and seeing other programs about her and the large amounts of love, affection, and appreciate for her was incredible she truly was loved by so many women especially when it came to injustice or discrimination. She proved a woman has the ambition, the drive, the intelligence to be successful. She passed on September 18, 2020 last year but has left an incredible legacy for everyone and the next generation of legal minds ahead coming in the legal profession. 





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Shirley Chisolm born November 30, 1924 in Brooklyn, New York and passed on January 1st, 2005 in Ormond Beach, Florida. She is one of the first African American women who ran to become a politician and became the first woman who was elected to Congress. She served seven terms between the years 1969 to 1983. She’s influential to me because I think it’s important for young ladies who are looking to become the next future politicians in America. She inspires them to take a chance out there be genuine, authentic, fair, diplomatic, and remember to care about the livelihood of the people. I would love to see a story about her life because young women need to see stories told about women who can and have made a major difference. 




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Danica Sue Patrick born March 25, 1982 born in Beloit, Wisconsin I chose Danica I am actually a fan of the movies, “Fast & Furious” and cannot wait one day to get behind a car and just fly off somewhere on an empty road or parking lot. I chose her because I haven’t seen many women step up to this sport this is a sport. You are trained thoroughly on how to drive around the course and Danica has broken records. She accomplished multiple firsts for women and to achieve the IndyCar race. I think for young women who have a bit of adventurous and daredevil in their personalities. This would be a great profession if you’re someone who prefers a challenge and wants an adrenaline rush in your career. Danica and the many women stepping out there putting their gas pedal to the road. Keep opening doors.





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Misty Danielle Copeland born September 10, 1982 in Kansas City, Missouri I love her story is incredible I watched her documentary, “A Ballerina’s Tale” a couple years ago and was captivated even more by her daily routine, the challenges she faces as a dancer, accomplishing incredible goals as one of the first African American women in the 21st century. I was trying not to cry then I heard she was going to be the cast as the “Sugar Plum Fairy” in the Nutcracker and the Four Realms. I loved hearing this story one as a little girl I always wanted that role. I started taking ballet at 4 and stopped about 11. I still love to dance and so many young girls and boys love this athletic sport. Dance is an art but it also a sport, jumping, the technique of leaping, running at times, lifting, and so much more goes into this and then to add on a woman who was facing challenges against her race and more behind the scenes. It is an incredible story. I read about the original prima ballerinas like Maria Tallchief and so many women who paved the way who opened doors before our time. Misty her accomplishments are incredible she’s been featured in many advertisements for Dannon as a spokeswoman, featured in videos, on the Grammys. I think for young ladies who love the craft it’s inspiring and you should go out there and make it happen. We still need more dancers of all backgrounds. 




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Wendy Joan Williams born on July 18, 1964 in Asbury Park, New Jersey has become the “Queen of Radio, Pop Culture, and Entertainment”. Wendy just released a documentary in January of 2021 this year, “Wendy Williams the Movie” on Lifetime and releasing a documentary the same weekend. Both films were an in-depth encounter of what was happening to Wendy behind the scenes when she was going through family, personal, and relationship issues during her time while also managing her nationally syndicated television show. Wendy has released seven books, produced films for Lifetime networks, created a fashion line, was the host for several radio stations in PA, NJ, and New York. Now the nationally syndicated star who tells people “I am a self-proclaimed misfit”. This misfit or underdog has risen to extreme heights of success and earned her star on the Hollywood walk of fame in 2019. Her impact for women in radio, television, film has taken everyone to new levels. She has struggled with her own personal demons behind the scenes but fought every single day to accomplish her professional career. She knew what she wanted to be even as a little girl. She achieved and knew I have the gift of gab and I am going to make it. 



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Britney Jean Spears born on December 2, 1981 born in Mc Comb, Mississippi and grew up in Kentwood, Louisiana is the “Princess of Pop”, actress, businesswoman, and is ultimate survivor. I love this woman’s story because she had raw talent as a little girl only a baby singing around the house then trying out for Star Search at age 9 auditioning and soaring. I admire her when I was a little pre-teen in junior high, I remember one of my childhood friends passing along this Britney Spears first cd and we were so excited to listen to it. Listening and then seeing her first video, “Baby One More Time” on MTV creating a pop culture iconic moment with the Catholic school uniform, pigtails, and then her crazy dance moves doing acrobatics, flips, and tricks. She changed music breaking records on the charts as one of biggest female solo acts. No matter what you think of her you have to respect this woman’s incredible tenacity, business acumen, and her passion for her craft.




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Taraji P. Henson born on September 11, 1975 in Washington, D.C. the woman who would become “Cookie Lyon” on Fox’s Empire television show one of the most successful with an African American ensemble cast. Taraji is just one of those women you need who’s going to give it to you straight. She’s that friend who’s going to tell you girl you after a bad breakup get up, put on that fly dress, get your make up done, and go find someone new. I say that because she keeps it real and is very down to earth with everyone who you see her doing a film project with too. Love how she always chooses roles that scare her and take her out of her comfort zone. She knows how to connect to her character as an actress and you see her delve into the motive of that person. You see it in her films, “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button”, “Empire”, “Acrimony”, and more.




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Whoopi Goldberg born on November 13, 1955 born in the Chelsea section in New York, NY her birth name is Caryn Elaine Johnson I consider her an inspiration we are both from New York City, born in November we share the same sign, and had similar dream. She wanted to become a female comedienne legendary woman like “Moms Mabley”, Cloris Leachman, Carol Burnett, and so many women influenced her with her comedienne techniques. Now this multi award winner Emmys, Oscars, Golden Globes, and a plethora of hit films under her belt. She has been incredible person who holds her own on television host and moderator of “The View” and she still continues to act. You should see her as Tiffany Haddish and Tika Sumpter’s mother in the 2019 film, “Nobody’s Fool.” 





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Angelina Jolie born June 4, 1975 in Los Angeles, California I chose because of her incredible work with UNICEF, her rainbow family Angelina is the modern-day woman who represents equality, fairness, and compassion for women. I love how she’s also a badass woman as well. You have to respect that beyond the red carpet, cameras flashing, interviews, and make-up sessions. She just cares about giving back and trying to celebrate inclusivity for all races and backgrounds. 





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Rachael Ray yes I picked Rachael Ray I almost feel like she’s a family member cause I used to watch the Food Network back in high school and watch this television show “30 minute meals” and “Rachael Ray’s Tasty Travels” I loved because it took you out of the world to greatest restaurants luxurious and cheap too. All in a half an hour. Loved the show some of my cooking ideas and recipes have come from her as well. She’s amazing converting viewers, foodies, chefs, and other television cooking shows to eat “EVOO” Extra Virgin Olive Oil. Rachael is now featured of course on WABC Network and the Food Network. Making affordable, healthy, delicious, and colorful meals for everyone. Salute to this incredible lady. One of my favorite chefs. 





 19. Mrs. Lorraine Smith from Bancroft Elementary School in Washington, D.C. my fifth-grade teacher I haven’t seen her since I was a little 10-year-old girl but I have to thank this woman because she saw something in me, I didn’t see in myself. I don’t know where she is now but if anyone ever reads this who I went to school with during (1995-1997) I have to say this woman was such an awesome, compassionate person, no judgment, she saw my dramatic flair, and encouraged me to do some school plays. My first school play was “Dr. Manners” I have it on my home movies and just have to say she taught me to channel my attitude and personality into art. Mrs. Smith thank you so much. Would love to see you. God bless you and thank you for encouraging and believing in your students. You encouraged me to follow my passions. 





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My college professor, writer, podcast and television broadcaster Karen Hunter born April 24, 1966 in Orange City, NJ (Professor Hunter don’t get me cause I looked up your birthdate) This is strictly to celebrate you and the moment you taught me during a lesson of doing interviews on the street for my Basic Reporting class. I had to do an interview on the street and this is probably 2009 way before my internships. Where I got to experience doing real interviews later on the street. I turned into “Mousey Mary” getting shy and scared by the street vendors selling food on the New York City. I had to interview them and I remember feeling upset about it. I went to my professor after she saw the work, I turned in. She said I want you to channel someone you admire and get comfortable. She told me to create my own version of “Sasha Fierce” BeyoncĂ©’s alter-ego creation from her “I AM…SASHA FIERCE” (2008) album. I did and damn it worked I went in the bathroom put in my contact lenses, did my make-up, dried my eyes, and told myself Chloe you got this, you know how to talk to people, and boom….I finished my paper and passed her class. That was big teachable moment for 22-year-old me in college. That’s what led to me graduating. Sometimes we have to become heightened versions of ourselves. Or better yet become the person we want the world to see and become the most confident version of ourselves to succeed. 




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Sheryl Kara Sanberg, COO of Facebook born August 28, 1969 in Washington, D.C. is the Chief Operating Officer and the author of “Lean In”. I read her book and loved her advice about women being capable of having it all. I admired how even when she had her children she was back to work right away. She found work-life balance and still found a way to become a part of the biggest social media companies, Facebook and teamed up with Mark Zuckerberg the founder and CEO of Facebook. I loved this because he believed in diversity and inclusivity for women. He was intimidated or afraid to add a female perspective to his team. Sandberg's addition to Facebook is a game changer not just for Facebook but also for all social media platforms when it comes to choosing women in higher and managerial positions in the workplace in all corporate office, business, production, crafts, and services. 




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Tiffany Sara Cornilia Haddish, comedienne, actress born on December 3, 1979 in South Central, LA and has become of the top-performing Jewish-African American young millennial comediennes of her generation. Tiffany was nine years old when her mother was in a horrific accident when she became the sole parental figure as a little girl taking care of her siblings. Her mother had experienced psychological, physical, and mental damage to her brain and experienced side effects. Tiffany stepped in raising her siblings and after living in foster care, even living in Scientology quarters, and also getting involved with a laugh camp as a teenager and with the Laugh Factory when she was in her early twenties, she worked her way up eventually ended up on BET’s Comic view, working as a background extra, overcoming homelessness, meeting her fellow comedian Kevin Hart, in 2017 Tiffany earned her breakout role “Girls Trip” which changed her career and now has taken Tiffany straight to CEO of her own production company, recording specials, and music as well. Tiffany is the host of “Kids say the darndest things” and has been the host of many other television shows. 




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Rachel Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex born on August 4, 1981 in Canoga Park, Los Angeles is a game changer this woman has changed everything in society. On May 19, 2018 she married the Duke of Sussex, Prince Harry Mountbatten. Her impact now in the British Royal family, society, global impact has changed completely how we see that yes even in the 21st century women have an opportunity to become a historical, global, female icon. It doesn’t matter what people say she will forever be known as an icon. Meghan now has the opportunity to bring her thoughts, ideas, opinions, and her vision here in America along with her husband, their son, Archibald Harrison Mountbatten aka "Archie", and their daughter who will arrive this summer 2021. 




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Tracee Ellis Ross born October 29, 1972 in Los Angeles; California her mother Diana Ross can truly say she gave birth to a star for sure amongst her 4 other children as well. Tracee is a fashion icon, she sings, she’s silly, fun, and loved her on “Girlfriends” and currently “Blackish” she’s acting, producing, and many other projects. She’s pretty incredible I would love to see a clothing line by her, her mother, and family. There’s a lot of fashion genes in the whole Ross family. Incredibly talented and cannot wait to see so much more from her in the future. I am inspired by just her political efforts, and her impact in society for women. She makes all kids feel like it’s ok to be biracial. As the great-granddaughter of my great-grandfather who was Jewish & African-American I can feel what people may have experienced with critique or judgment especially when you have two dynamic races colliding that’s pretty powerful. On the show Blackish you get a wide view of topics that black people in general feel and deal with on a daily basis. 




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"Cardi B" born Belcalis Marlenis Alamanzar-Cephus on October 11, 1992 in New York, NY born in Manhattan grew up in the Bronx, New York. Is a legendary hip-hop star. Everyone knows her story and it is incredible she started out doing odd jobs in high school and took the path of becoming an exotic dancer. Then later became huge on Instagram and later VH-1’s “Love & Hip-Hop”. She actually made her debut on Shaggy’s “Boom Boom” recorded and was featured cutting mixtapes since 2015 and eventually her hit song, “Bodak Yellow” became a number one hit song, 3 years later, “Invasion of Privacy” hit the airwaves in 2018 and after a private wedding to Migos front man, Offset and baby Kulture Kiari’s arrival in July of 2018, Cardi didn’t really slow down she took a few months but then was right back in the game promoting, working on a ton of projects, Cardi’s reality television series on Facebook Live, “Cardi Tries” and just released “Up” her debut single for her new album and just became one of the hip hop female rap artists to make it to E! True Hollywood this March 2021. Looking forward to a new album Cardi. My girl is hustling’ hard in the streets even in Covid-19 times. 



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The late, Aaliyah Dana Haughton (born January 16, 1979 in Brooklyn, NY and passed on August 25, 2001 in Nassau, Bahamas) this woman influenced me completely wanting to dance, sing, act, she did it all and was a really special part of my upbringing when it came to falling in love with music. She had such cool style, classy, elegant, and everyone just loved her personality she was “street but sweet” she liked to call herself. Every time I hear her voice it takes me right back to childhood and my teen years too. Very influential she was a valedictorian in high school straight A student, and just had that good-girl image people were looking fill in the industry during the early 1990s during that time. She will forever be a fashion, music symbol, entertainer in our hearts and minds.




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The Kardashian Family Empire, Kris Jenner and the entire family. We have to thank Kristen Mary Houghton-Jenner (formerly Kardashian) born November 5, 1955 in San Diego, California is the matriarch of 6 children who is incredible at changing lives, opening doors, managing all 6 of children’s careers, their personal lives, and more. I admire Kris because you would never imagine that a woman who a former flight attendant traveling the world would become the woman who would build her empire and her families empire. She is “The Wizard of Oz” behind the curtain who has been working extremely hard making sure everyone stayed afloat no matter what the personal challenges or professional. Kris maintained a regality, dignity, respect, she kept her humor intact, and made sure everyone was taken care of properly. 21 seasons of “Keeping up with the Kardashians” (2007-Present) their last season will air on E! Network this spring. She changed the lives of Kourtney, Kim, Khloe, Robert, Kendall, Kylie, her former husband, Bruce Jenner, and her 9 grandchildren: Mason, North, Penelope, Dream, Reign, Chicago, Stormi, True, and Psalm. I am sure this family will continue to expand. She even changed the lives of her daughter’s husbands and boyfriends as well expanding all of their business branding as well. Everyone should give Mama K some love. She kept the family together and a float beyond the media swarming and sea. 






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You Tuber influencer, Make-up artist, Model, beauty queen, and Host of “Ok Kay Kay”, “The Ellises” You Tube comedy series vlog, Khadeen Ellis born December 1983 and grew up in Brooklyn, NY I love her comedy series with her husband, actor, NFL star, Devale Ellis, with their three sons: Jackson, Kairo, and Kaz, their discussions on family, business, love, relationships. You have seen them featured on Black Love and many other television series. I consider her an influence because she’s a hustler, she and I have a lot in common both studied communications and broadcasting. She’s a boss babe don’t sleep on this woman because she alone can make a name for herself. I started watching the Ellises in 2017 and have considered them like my “YouTube family members” they are lovable and they really do sit down as a family bringing awareness to their children and other family members as a whole. I only want to see more and more happen for them because they really deserve it. They’re a good hardworking family who believe in positivity, love, and leveling up in this world. 





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You Tuber/Broadcaster/influencer, up and coming, hip hop artist “Bella Barz” (Paige), I just found out about Bella Barz last year but appreciate her content and advice. Love that she’s real, honest, and she gives really good great information to everyone. Very down to earth, she does focus on adult content. So warning this is not for children or young teens. Older teens 18 and up. Ladies check out her YouTube channel she promotes eating healthy clean, vegan life, fitness, and wellness. 






 30. You Tuber/Broadcaster/Influencer, Fancy Feminine, Felicia

 is a former beauty queen as well. I love her YouTube channel, The Fancy Feminine if you’re a girly girl or if you’re looking to boost your femininity, I would say check out this young lady’s podcast definitely. She really teaches women about embracing and treating themselves daily.





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Chanel the icon, the legend who built and has defined fashion for a century. Gabrielle Bonheur “Coco” Chanel born (August 19, 1883-January 10, 1971), the iconic Chanel started her fashion label in the 20th century and became the fashion icon that she is today. I wanted to pay respect to her because she really did influence generations of women from the 1920s to now in the 2021! Love her iconic little black dress, the double interlocking C’s pearl necklace, the bags, and more. Chanel symbolizes glamour, sophistication, chicness, and simplicity. Her clothing line continues to evolve with every generation don’t be surprised if you see a Chanel futuristic space dress up suit with matching moonboots. 





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Gabrielle Monique Union born on October 29, 1972 in Omaha; Nebraska is another boss babe. film and television actress, fashion designer, author, spokeswoman for New York & Company, and activist. I admire her incredible strength, her outspoken voice, and she’s the epitome of class. Gabrielle has opened doors for many people and also is changing lives as well. 






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Janet Damita Jo Jackson born May 16, 1966 in Gary, Indiana is the youngest of 9 children 2 girls, 6 boys. The 2019 Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductee and international icon. She is still one of my heroes to this day my father was the one who introduced me to Janet’s music I knew about the Jacksons and their legacy. Now when I started watching and listening to Janet it was a different story. I immediately loved her music and just connected with her right away. It was about her lyrics, female empowerment, racism, self-improvement, body issues, social issues, sexuality, romance, and more. Janet’s songwriting skills, dance moves, style, and singing has been emulated for the last 3 decades since she first arrived with her debut album in 1984. Now we fast forward there is a biopic 




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Tina Turner (Annamae Bullock) born on November 26, 1939 in Nutbush, Tennessee one of my long-time heroes I have talked about Tina and as you all know who read my blog, I went to see Tina on Broadway in February of 2020 that’s the last Broadway show I saw in person. I have seen shows on television since then but Tina left an impact on me. Not just because she grew up in St. Louis, Mo and became famous there. My family is from St. Louis. It’s also her determination, her dance moves, her songs, and her never-ending energy. If you saw what I saw on Broadway that night you never would want to leave. She is the Queen of Rock & Roll. She’s a soul survivor, a fighter, and a just a true dynamic force. I admire her strength and her determination. 





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Kimora Lee Leissner (formerly Simmons) born on May 4, 1975 in St. Louis, Missouri I remember my mom brought “Fabulosity” (2006) for me when I was about 19 and I loved her book, her clothing and shoe line always a fan, and her reality television show. I think there was a connection I could relate to her because of some of her childhood experiences. I remember her discussing her being the tallest person in her class and I felt that too. She was teased people calling her a giraffe because of her exotic, beautiful features. I was teased as well growing up and I loved her book was full of great tips on being fabulous, having confidence, grooming, loving yourself, and becoming a positive influence to people. Kimora thank you!



 36.

Susan L. Taylor from Harlem, New York born January 23, 1946 the former editor of Essence Magazine. Essence was founded 50 years ago. Susan L. Taylor is the original editor and found this magazine which a beacon for not just African American women but women of all colors, shapes, and sizes. Susan’s contribution with this magazine has taught women from all different social groups, classes, educational backgrounds in society how to conduct themselves, how to walk, to be groomed as women, and to carry their heads regally. The magazine teaches us everything about how to behave, how we should aim for a higher success for ourselves. Even how to deal with health matters too. How we should give back to society as well. 



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Marguerite Anne Johnson who would later become the great Dr. Maya Angelou was born April 4, 1928 in St. Louis, Missouri and passed on May 28, 2014 in Salem Winston, North Carolina. I will never forget I was at my father’s job I was about 7 and this girl had a poster of all of these African American women hanging up in a room. I just remember seeing the slashes in her background. Maya was a singer, poet, writer, dancer, author, actress, civil rights activist, and she received 50 honorary degrees. When you see all of these slashes in anyone’s resume you wonder how did they do it? Plus, she was also a wife and mother as well. So yes, this incredible, dynamic, Renaissance woman has touched many people’s lives and given them hope inspiration in dark times in our world. Maya’s words have given comfort, hope, light, and opened to possibilities for all of us. She is someone you never want to forget ever. If you read any of her books or poems like “I know why the caged bird sings” and “Phenomenal Woman”. You are easily comforted and feel a weight lifted. That’s the power of her words. May God continue to watch over that angel. 




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The Queen of Hip Hop/Soul, Mary Jane Blige born on January 11, 1971 in New York City, NY grew up in the Yonkers section of New York. This woman right here even when I was a little girl I could relate to the lyrics. I heard “Reminisce”, “What’s the 411”, “Real Love”, “I want to be happy”, “Not Gon’ Cry”, and “I’m going down” these are songs I was singing around my house, in the car on long road trips. I can recognize introductions, instrumentals, Mary’s voice right away. She is the Queen of Hip Hop/Soul because of the pain she can translate into lyrics. Mary herself has experienced many different personal, family, and relationship struggles as a child, teen, and adult. No matter what despite any situation that she found herself in she put her faith in God first. She found a way of healing with music. I think when she was a teenager, she realized not only that she had a gift but she also had a gift to give women and men hope, to comfort them, to heal them, and to fight as well. She made people want to dance, want to cry sometimes, want to yell, or even just to escape from every day issues too. I chose Mary because whenever I think of a song to sing to someone when they find out I sing. I always go back to the one song that made me feel a deep connection to it “I want to be happy” there’s one lyric that says “I just want to be so happy but the answer lies in me”. That lyric sticks with me because in the end no matter what you go through. Your relationship with yourself is the one that determines that. Mary’s music is something every woman needs in her back pocket when she is going through any tough situation: break-up, hurt, needs healing, guidance. Listen to her lyrics connect the dots with real life. You will find the keys in their strength, soul-healing in her lyrics. 




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Laverne Cox, actress and entertainer born on May 29, 1972 in Mobile, Alabama is an LGBTQ advocate and has made her way into all of our hearts. She made her way into pop culture on the television show “Orange is the New Black” but she has been acting since 2000 and started out in smaller roles. I chose Laverne because of her incredible story and inspiration to women and men who have struggled with gender identity, sexual identity, sexual orientation issues, or even were discriminated against with racism, sexism, abused, hurt, or worst in any situation. She has been nominated for a GLAAD award, 2015 OUT Power List, People’s Most Beautiful people list. She has inspired children, teenagers, young women, young men in society who may have struggled with any situation in their home life, personal life, or even work situations. Giving them hope, giving them healing, and opening intelligent and well-informed people’s minds that all people just deserve love, deserve to shine no matter where they come from, what their occupation is, there role in society is too. They belong and they deserve a life full of promise, full of purpose to live in their truth too.







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 The Vice-President, Kamala Devi Harris born on October 20, 1964 in Oakland California to her mother Shyamala Gopalan who was a biologist discovering ways to cure cancer and her father, Donald J. Harris were instrumental parts in helping Kamala become the woman she is today. Kamala just broke history on January 20, 2021 as the first female vice-president of the United States of America for the 46th presidential administration for Joseph R. Biden. This was a historical night I remember seeing her in her cream white suit, her heels, walking to the podium and just beaming. You just saw a light radiating and a glow shining from her. This was such an incredible moment for women, women of color, American women, and women across the globe. Little girls were sitting on their father’s shoulders crying the night she received her nomination, people honking their horns at their cars while they were socially distanced because of health precautions due to the pandemic. It was historical, momentous, and it inspired us. We were among a new era, a new beginning of hope, and a chance for women to take the highest office. This broke open a door for women and shattered the glass ceiling. This is a chance for a woman to step in and give equality in the workplace, change that 70 cents to a dollar, see more women, more races, and cultures reflected in congress, the senate, and in the board room, and the oval office with higher officials. I will never forget it and don’t want to treat it as a just casualty this is an accomplishment. It shows it’s go time, we have step up, level up even more as women. Correct mistakes and find ways to change the structure of society. That we can give everyone a chance to live in a fair, just, safe, productive, and a good world. A world that believes in fighting along the sides of people with good hearts and souls. Kamala I am sure may just feel like that girl from Oakland on her way to school with her sisters, she may just feel like an ordinary person, but to us the generation of girls, teenagers, and women looking at you. We look at you like you are extraordinary you are inspiring girls and women all over the world. Saying to them verbally and no verbally, “I did now you can too.” Congratulations to Kamala Devi Harris, congratulations to all of these amazing women, and I am so excited to write about the next 40 women and many more to come. Please know you make a difference every single day. Tell your mother, your grandmother, your sisters, your aunts, your nieces, your cousins, your daughter, stepdaughter, your girlfriend, your wife, your friends, your neighbor, and every woman who is important she's beautiful, she's a light in this world, and to shine brightly.

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