Tuesday, August 31, 2010

FASHIONABLE FALL TRENDS GET READY TO HAVE A FASHIONABLE DAY OR NIGHT OUT.


FALL 2010 FASHIONABLE TRENDS FOR THE LADIES DAY OR NIGHT YOU TAKE IT TO WHERE YOU WANT TO GO. BY: CHLOE J. RICCARDO AKA "HONEY BROWN SUGAR"




I LOVE THE FALL 2010 TRENDS ALL READY FUR, BLACK, ECCENTRICITY, A LOT OF CREATIVE TRENDS I SEE A LOT TAKEN FROM THE PAST BROUGHT INTO THE FALL 21ST CENTURY STYLE. THESE UPDATED LOOKS ARE GUARANTEED TO MAKE SOMEONE LOOK AND EVEN MAYBE TURN TWICE. JUST BECAUSE SUMMER WILL BE OVER SOON DOES NOT MEAN THE PARTY HAS TO STOP JUST YET....YOU CAN TAKE AND MAKE YOUR WAY ON THE URBAN/SUBURBAN CATWALK WITH THESE FASHIONABLE TRENDS THIS AUTUMN IN STYLE. DESIGNED STRAIGHT FROM THE CATWALK BY D'ALTUZARRA, PRABAL GURUNG, TOMMY HILFIGER. THESE TRENDS COME STRAIGHT FROM THE DESIGNERS MINDS AND IN TO OUR HANDS TAKE A LOOK....



DESIGNED BY ALTUZARRA FOR FASHION 2010 TRENDS







DESIGNED BY PRABAL GURUNG FASHION TRENDS FOR FALL 2010




MICHAEL KORS FALL 2010 TRENDS





















FALL 2010 is rapidly approaching and now it is time to consider Fall 2010 trends for all the women and men who want to be on their A game for this fall season. I love the fall because I love the way the leaves change colors, the kids go back to school, the air is crisp, I celebrate a lot of birthdays including my own during the Fall as well. So it's a good time especially up here north especially in New York!. So with Fall approaching this year. I see a lot of mixing and matching with clothes. I love fedoras, scarves, boots I love boots, and I see of course the fall trends making their way across the stores, boutiques, and all over. Burnt oranges, carmel browns, mustard yellows, smokey grays, deep browns, and burgundys always good colors for the fall. Rich and very expensive prints: crocodile prints, leathers, animal prints, furs. I see a lot of fur appearing their way into bags. For those women who love fur (faux would be best if you're on a budget an for animal lovers). If you invest in real fur consider something affordable for yourself. Also invest in really good shoes and bags its a plus especially with the weather conditions we have and our busy lives. A purse, shoes, and boots go a long way during the fall and winter seasons. So mujeres (ladies) look out and get your shop on for the FALL it's time to invest!!!
Affordable bags that will make their way on the catwalk streets. Another fashionable fall for women and men. So let us begin this 2010 with fashionable these brand new, hot fall trends.

GETTING TO KNOW YOU GETTING TO KNOW ALL ABOUT YOU

"GETTING TO KNOW YOU" YES SOMETIMES IN THE END IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU by: CHLOE J. RICCARDO AKA HONEY BROWN SUGAR
A friend of mine said something that I saw that I cannot get out of my head because it wasn't a female who said it. It was a male friend who I have known for a long time and the fact that it was a male that makes me want to consider what he said. It's a simple and good tip for women something that they cannot forget. When it comes to relationships for men and women. Sometimes they may have failed sometimes they will succeed our expectations. It all depends on the person that we are with at that time. Nonetheless we have to remember who we are. My friend said women need to focus on themselves. A fact that cannot be forgotten by anyone at all.
You cannot forget who you are within your relationship something I have learned from dating and even from many conversations with the "experts" in my life. And even myself I have learned if you lose yourself, your goals, your plans, your dreams. You're going to forget who you are in the relationship. Something that has to remain even if you are still involved you cannot lose sight of that. The most important part to remember is the person you have become and involved into that's what has to remain...secondly the person who fell in love with you. That is something you cannot forget either. So you have to get to know yourself ahead of time before getting involved with the person you plan to spend time with as well. It's more appealing, more attractive, and it makes them more interested in you. It also is attractive because it shows you are not needy....you are independent you can handle yourself with and without the person as well.
I have learned this I remember there was a time and even now when I was dating someone and during the times I was not dating anyone I learned about myself. I learned what I liked, what I enjoyed, what makes me happy, and even what I want my future to be like as well. When you get to work and get to know yourself. You are capable of finding the person who you want to be with as well. Something that I believe can work for both women and men when it comes to a break in a relationship, a break in singleness, a break for marriage. Work on yourself and then you will be able to pursue the person who may be Ms. Right or Mr.Right. Even if you do not want to be involved in relationships in general. It is a great way to do some work on yourself and take some time to enjoy yourself.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Now Where Are You Taking Me?...Best & Worst Dates

" Now Where are you Taking Me?"

:The Best and Worst Dates to take someone on A Date.

Written by: Chloe Jewel Riccardo AKA "Honey Brown Sugar"
















This idea popped in my head immediately this past weekend. I just fell in love with the thought of it and just everything it would entail. I get to do some serious research and I get to educate the ladies and gentlemen, help them, and also solve their dating issues plus heal their wounds too. So here we go....Where are you taking me baby?







I was watching the reality new hit "Ochocinco: Ultimate Catch" with Chad Ochocinco. The idea popped in my head as soon as he said we're going on a date to the laundromat I am thinking wait a minute come on the place where I wash my clothes every single weekend when I have to so I stay fly. I don't think so...the laundromat there's no way I am going on a date with you to the laundromat...it just doesn't sound romantic at all to me.







So here's my idea now where are you taking me love....? So I have the best places and the worst dates for you my beloved blog readers.







The best and worst places to take that special someone on a date would be....Let's do the worst first and then I'll save the best for last (Pun intended)















The worst place (FOR FIRST DATES ESPECIALLY) in my opinion along with the laundromat is:















1. LAUNDROMAT--NO NOT UNLESS THE WOMAN/MAN YOU ARE WITH ARE COMMITTED AND LIVING TOGETHER SHOULD YOU TAKE HIM/HER WITH YOU TO THE LAUNDROMAT....FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE EVERYTHING. NOT ON A FIRST DATE. YOU CANNOT START OFF BEING THEIR "FLUNKY OR MAID" SO NO NOT THE LAUNDROMAT















2. A CEMETERY--YES I SAID IT A CEMETERY NO ONE SHOULD EVER TAKE THEIR DATE TO A CEMETERY AS MUCH AS I HAVE RESPECT FOR LIFE. NOT THE CEMETERY AT ALL BECAUSE IT'S NOT A ROMANTIC PLACE UNLESS YOU TWO ARE ALREADY DATING OR IN A RELATIONSHIP.















3. HIS MOTHER'S HOUSE/FATHER'S HOUSE/PARENT'S HOUSE/FAMILY'S HOUSE. NOT UNTIL THE FIRST COUPLE OF DATES THIS IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO DO WHEN YOU FEEL THEY ARE 100% YOUR TIME AND THE COMMITMENT IS THERE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.















4. NO WHERE LOUD i.e. a club unless you had dinner first let's say then it's necessary.















5. BURGER KING, KFC, MCDONALD'S, WENDY'S, TACO BELL, BLIMPIE, DOMINO'S THESE ARE PLACES AFTER THE FIRST DATE. YOU WANT TO MAKE AN IMPRESSION NOT EMBARRASS YOURSELF. SO KEEP THESE LOVABLE FAST FOOD RESTAURANTS OUT THE EQUATION.















6. The mall unless you really plan to splurge him or her (ladies especially) then I understand must mean you two are together. But the only other way don't take him/her on a date to the mall first.















7. Your homeboy's house/your homegirl's house & your bestie's house come on it's not necessary for them to meet your friends until it is time and it is necessary so don't take them to your best friends house at all. It's not the right choice until you two are committed officially.















8. A home good's store just not cute what do you want to build me a house all ready? I don't think so ....so IKEA, HOME DEPOT is not necessary and you can't take them there.















9. A library you cannot communicate at all and plus there's nothing for you two to do except you both plan on working on a work or school project. Otherwise it's not necessary.















10. Never take someone to a function that also includes something dangerous or illegal as well. Then you will have problems and you will run into something you don't want to deal with at all. It will cause you and the person you are with to deal with an awkward situation. Basically don't take anyone to a secluded dark location especially at night when creepy things and I don't just mean insects and people are as well. You have to play it safe.














Okay here we go next on my list is...BEST DATES!!!!! YES BEST DATES FOR THE HAPPY COUPLE =)














1. An amusement park-carnivals such as coney island, six flags, hershey park, dorney park, busch gardens, all of them because not only do you get a chance to actually enjoy yourself and spend time with your significant other as well. The best part is that you get to see more of their physical active side and their mental active side. How well they can hold a challenge for themselves. How well they can play the game let's say. You get a better sense to see if their competitive. You also get to see their inner child and see them actually become a kid again and their playful side.















2. A helicopter ride I love to fly and I love the thought of being in a helicopter ride with the person I care for completely with me flying over and able to do aerial shots of the ground and of people around high up in the sky looking at the people and seeing them travel above, the homes, the night sky, and everything it is something every person should do with the person they care for and love.










3. Live concerts I suggest you probably meet the person ahead of time at another location before you two actually go meet somewhere close by if you need to speak and then go and have a good time.










4. The Park now if you live in an urban or rural area you can probably find a million parks to go to can i suggest a romantic picnic for two, a ride on a boat in a little lake or river.










5. Pet Store/Local Shelter this is for animal lovers only something you two can enjoy and see what kind of animals you both like and enjoy.










6. Paint one another find a painting class and paint, sculpt, build, and do things creatively that will get both of you to be each others muses.










7. Karaoke or Record your own c.d. together no you may not be a Grammy winning singer but you get to record a duet and it will be yours to keep. Plus you get to rock out to all of your favorite songs with one another.










8. A hot air balloon ride something fun, adventurous, and with the two of you even more fun. You get to see the scenery of the location. You're high up in the air. Maybe a glass of champagne to calm each others nerves if you're afraid of heights and you're floating high up in the sky in you're own world with all the clouds above the both of you. I suggest sunset between 5-7p.m. during the summer. If it is the fall/winter try to go a little earlier.










9. Sports activities: football, basketball, archery, fishing, skiing,and hiking activities the two of you can enjoy and have a lot of fun getting to know one another. You once again get to see each other's competitive abilities and what kind of strength and character each of you have and can contribute in a relationship one day if you take it there. Perhaps climbing in the mountains or going high on top of a mountain (you can drive) and have dinner served for the two of you.










And last but not least Number 10: Roof Terrace dinner catered by him or her with people serving just the two of you, and full service for him or also a spa massage treatment, haircut/hairstyling, dancing, and your own private place for the two of you. i suggest a private location perhaps a hotel can provide some of the services unless you go to a local spa and include all activities into one romantic date. I HOPE THIS GIVES EVERYONE SOME BEAUTIFUL IDEAS AND USE YOUR CREATIVITY. YOU CAN BE FRUGAL/EXPENSIVE WITH YOUR GENEROSITY IT'S A MATTER OF COMPROMISING AND NEGOTIATING WHAT WORKS FOR YOUR BUDGET. BEST OF LUCK TO ALL THE DATERS OUT THERE. =)!!!! YOUR GIRL, HONEY BROWN SUGAR.














Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Cheating Men & Women Why Do they really still exist?

PERHAPS A PILL SHOULD BE INVENTED TO HELP MEN AND WOMEN WHO CHEAT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS


"YOU'RE NOTHING BUT A LIAR, CHEATER, DECEIVER , HEARTBREAKER": CHEATING MEN CHEATING WOMEN WHY DO THEY REALLY STILL EXIST?
Written by: Chloe Jewel Riccardo aka "Honey Brown Sugar"


I find it so unbelievable that in today's society as many conversations people have had today. So many television programs talk about this topic, so many people have written books, movies have been produced, songs have been written, and why do people still want to cheat on their partners. It disappoints me to hear when a young man or woman still feels the need to cheat on their girlfriends, boyfriends, fiancees, wives, or husbands. It makes me think what is the problem? Why do people consistently have to find a way to ruin their relationships when they work so hard to build them up and invest time into the person who they are with at that moment. Especially when it comes to marriages I have been watching a lot of wedding shows, wedding specials, I have seen so many sitcoms, movies, plays, and read books where the couple is dealing with the love and war factor. However, it does not make any sense to me why do people choose to do harm in their relationship when they have so much to build and so many things to do with their significant other. It makes me always wonder though do people take their vows seriously? Do they actually take that to heart or is it all for the party, the reception, the wedding, the celebration. Why do people still want to cheat? I have not experienced this first hand nor do I plan to because the man who does that to me will have a lot to deal with on his hands and won't be able to deal with himself. I believe in fairness, respect, really valuing a human being and the person you love and plan to cherish. It bugs and bothers me when I hear about someone being cheated on or their significant other planning to cheat. This is one topic that will not go away for years to come I know. I could probably fill my whole blog with the names of people who have cheated on their spouses, girlfriends, and fiancees. But I will not disclose any names out of respect for those individuals. I am not going to say any names....cause you already know who I am thinking of and the people I am talking about.
The things is this I believe in finding a solution to every problem. I believe in communication...and I also believe if you don't say what's on your mind it will never come to fruition. Rather than choose to sneak and harm the person you want to why not actually let them know what the problem is and what the issue seems to be. I know that as I get older maybe I will be able to understand it all more clearly but from my perspective and the kind of young woman I am and how I was raised. I believe in what a famous comedian said once "You have to love the crust of a m-f***er ". Which is true if you cannot accept a persons ins and outs...everything that they are. You will have issues in your relationship. If someone is not bringing you what you need there clearly is a problem. Marriage counselors work, therapy sessions work, long vacations, just saying what the problem is to that person. It can be resolved and solved. So tell me this people Why do the cheating men and women roaming our planet still exist? Do you really want to feel this way? Perhaps they should walk around with jerseys stamped that say CHEATER number 1 on the backside....hmmm...or tattoos branded saying on their bodies that say: "YES I CHEATED ON MY SPOUSE" or "YES I CHEATED ON MY BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Which really is not going to help you at all in the end. So people get your acts together because if you don't love the person you are in a relationship with believe me you will see suitcases, boxes, old memories, and photographs at the door. Best of Luck to you all...Your girl HONEY BROWN SUGAR Ciao!!!

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