Thursday, June 30, 2011

Do we miss and skip over the nice guys ladies

Do we skip over the nice guys ladies and always go for the bad boys.
I always wonder what makes us think that he is the better choice.
Is it because sometimes we have a tendency to believe it will be just dull
I dont think so because it's more pleasant this way.


You don't have to stress over anything and look for a headache cure like Tylenol or Excedrin.
The best way to ease your peace of mind and heart. You should choose a good, sweet nice boy. I am sure some people would think "What's she saying? she's dated some bad boys too" Yeah but I have also met some really nice boys too and I believe they made me realize you need something with some substance too.


Not only that but you can mix and combine the two together he can be a perfect gentlemen and have a little badness in him too. I am not talking about morally more so on a personality and behavior thing. His way of treating you. That's what I mean. You want a high quality nice boy not poor quality bad boy or a man who does have some interesting qualities that keep you attracted and easy to relate to him too.

So sleep on the nice guys he may be exactly what you need in your life right now. Also he may surprise you too

No One Wants a Horrible Boss like this in Horrible Bosses the film

BEWARE WATCH OUT FOR BOSSES LIKE THESE AND GO SEE HORRIBLE BOSSES IN THEATERS NOW !
Have you ever had a horrible boss in your life who just needed to blow some steam off and say what's going on in your head to them. Well this is exactly what these three actors did in this film. I thought it was genius because everyone has this fantasy in their head. Yet you know you can never act it out cause you want to keep your job. This was the perfect hilarious take on this movie. I enjoyed it and couldn't stop laughing at some of the insane things these guys did to prove a point to all three of their bosses. I loved Kevin Spacey's character hilarious, kind of "Dr.Evillish" but he had the kind of personality that makes you see you need to bring this man's ego down a few notches he's got it on overload. Jennifer Aniston was amazing and funny in this film a big difference from the good-girl no pun intended characters that she plays in other films. Her character was like the insane, psycho, bitchy, boss you never want to encounter ever in life. I thought it was genius to make her into someone you can never see her playing cause she's known as a "good girl" in Hollywood. Jamie Foxx as "Motherf***in Jones" a complete difference than the suave, debonair man we see in real life.  I loved the film and it was hilarious. Go see Horrible Bosses this summer, grab some popcorn, soda, and get your Laugh On!!!!!

"Friends with Benefits" premiere!!!

Can we be friends with benefits? The first time I heard this term was back in high school at age fourteen lol. Now that I am almost twenty-five can this term actually still exists. Can we be friends with benefits, is that just a cover up for I am your "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" without the label? Well some very clever writers and directors just put that to the test in the hot new summer romantic comedy film. I attended with the help of a very cool website an exclusive movie screening of "Friends with Benefits" starring pop heartthrob, actor, musician, songwriter, Justin Timberlake and well known television and film actress, Mila Kunis. 
"The Friends and Benefits" premiere definitely made me very excited. It was almost like taking a backseat look into my life within the last probably five or six years. It was a good way to see how this generation's take on relationships can be nowadays. How we perceive relationships, what we want, and what we desire now. Especially what every person wants is to be with someone who they can be their best friend as well as their lover too. That is something that you need on a regular basis to fill you up and make you happy too. It's a great way to keep your relationship exciting. I loved Mila Kunis's performance and Justin Timberlake's performance. As well as Emma Stone "F***in John Mayer!!!" lol hilarious.You will see exactly what I mean in the film. 
The cast was hilarious it took you into a new dimension on films and almost made it a big realistic too. It wasn't like a sappy, romantic love film. It was a bit more like real life and some of the emotions were very real. I saw a sensitive part of Justin Timberlake that I really enjoyed and I loved how the character came across. Smart, business like, yet he wasn't like some perfect lothario. He really was like a normal guy but with flaws too. That is something that made it a lot more realistic and down to earth too. It made it easy to relate to and enjoyable. I give it five stars!!!! My friend and I enjoyed it a whole lot. Couldn't stop laughing especially since it took place in one of my favorite cities New York it was a bit satirical on romance films and New York romance films. Yet it was relatable too. Loved it. Go see it this summer immediately July 2011 it hits theaters. 

Friday, June 17, 2011

Happy Father's Day To All the Fathers (dedicated to my dad, Jewel Riccardo)

"Happy Father's Day"


When I was a little girl you video taped my ballet recitals, my birthday parties, dancing at parties with you, singing in the car, all of the  little fascinating moments of my life. I believe that was when I realized how much I loved the camera and also how every moment of my life was so important to you. That made me see how special I was to you. I cherish that a lot because I believe that even if you may not have the most idyllic, perfect father-daughter relationship. I had a father who adored, loved, supported my dream. Made me see that I needed to open myself up to the world so they can see who I am as a person. Open up and make me see how special my life was too.


I enjoy what you taught me how to ride my first bike, how to iron my clothes, how to cook, and everything else has meant a lot to me. We may have been miles apart but I have never forgotten those memories. Every little girl looks at her father like a superhero. Someone they believe is amazing and can achieve anything. No matter how many obstacles that have both come our way. I am glad that you and I have had a chance to really grow up and have you in my life.
Yeah I am a Daddy's Girl too =)
 I believe you can make it through anything. You have gone through some battles too like I have as well.  I know secretly I will always be "Daddy's Little Girl"...I show no favoritism at all to either one of you but I know we have a special bond...you are my father and I want to honor you for father's day. You make me laugh, you've given me a lot to think about, cherish, and I am glad to have you. You make me see how important not only is a mother in a child's life but you must have a father too. I am very happy to know that I have a father who loves me no matter what I decide to do in my life. You are a true testament to me that it's okay to be yourself, you can make it through challenges, and you can also heal yourself too.  So for father's day this is for you!


Love to all the fathers, grandfathers, great-grandfathers, stepfathers, and soon-to-be fathers too.
Happy Father's Day Raise your children and adopted children unconditionally they need you more than you know. 
So love this it shows how a real father loves to bond with his newborn =)

Remember when you Mirror Mirror On the Wall: I am beautiful and Special that's All

Young Ladies,
This is my letter to you all on body image please try not to judge one another on your differences. Your natural beauty is what God and your parents have given you. Your character, your personalities, your spirits, and your joy is what should be cherished. Never allow anything to make you feel inferior or less than at all. The most important thing you need to remember is every person on this planet is different. We all each individual man or woman, teen, or child. You are unique different in life experiences, different in  your appearances, and all of what makes you unique. 


So remember when you look in the mirror, when you present yourself to the world. Keep this mantra to yourself and repeat in your head, embrace it, own it!, and believe it!


"Mirror Mirror On the Wall" Chloe Riccardo
Mirror Mirror On the Wall....I am Beautiful and Special That's All!
I will not feel inferior or less than because I am short or tall. 
No matter how many times I rise and fall
I will always treat myself as if I am the Queen at the ball. 




No matter how many looks or stares I receive. Remember it is I who can only please me.
I can only love and accept me. As well the ones who love and adore me.
So Mirror Mirror on the Wall...I am beautiful, strong, spirited, special, fierce, and I love me always most of all. 



Wednesday, June 1, 2011

CHRIS ROCK'S NEW PLAY:The M-F**KER with the Hat!

You have to see this play. I saw it a while ago and the images are still buried in my brain. I know Chris Rock is a hilarious comedic genius. Yet when he came out with this play this topic hit home in a way. It focused on one thing that I never agree with though....dating other people while you're in a good relationship, also the struggles we face in our every day lives. Also what personal challenges you can occur while you are with someone. How can you stand the test along with them too. How can you deal with them and try to keep your partner happy. Aside from that it's hilarious! As soon as I walked in the door I saw Chris Rock and John Cannavale on stage with Annabelle Sciorra. I took to my seat ready for plenty of laughs. He never fails to disappoint at all. It's free flowing with profanity yet in order to make this play grasp who we are as New Yorkers. You have to add a little profanity in sometimes. It just makes it more entertaining and open to people. It makes you realize for one thing that sometimes right under your nose someone sneaky can be hiding a secret about your relationship.Sometimes it can be the people we least expect sometimes...aside from that he also brought up a lot of other topics that makes you realize why people feel the way do about drug or substance abuse a topic for people that many struggle with too. A topic that sometimes that can cause stress yet Rock makes it entertaining and real. He makes you feel like you're watching a real couple on stage dealing with the issues on stage. I really enjoyed the topic and of course the writing was incredible. 5 stars from me Chris!!! Love you and good luck. Cannot wait to see more from you in the future.  For more information go to  http://www.ticketmaster.com

Can Romance & the Workplace Go Hand in Hand?

This topic has been on my mind a lot lately and I am sure a lot of twenty-somethings, new college graduates, adults, and everyone. The topic comes up so frequently. It's the age old discussion of mixing business with pleasure. Can you date or be in a relationship with someone in the workplace? Can this ever happen? In the workplace environment can a man and a woman or just two people find love and function properly in the workplace to? I have no idea anymore I am used to keeping and sticking to the books. You don't want to cross that line because too many emotions, reputations, and business is at stake. 


The awful knowledge of your co-workers suddenly finding out about your romance and relationship. You don't want their knowledge of what is happening in your relationship. Next is also the issue of what problems you both can face.  You have to deal with the fact of your business being disclosed, the possibility of your relationship becoming a water cooler conversation. Also displays of affection, conversations, and the couple disputes becoming part of office party gossip. 


Is this where you want to head towards? Who knows but what about the two people who are involved. What if the couple knew of each other before they even worked at the same office. Suppose they have been friends for years. Or they could have worked and dated together for years. In this day and age anything is possible. I just wonder how can you keep your relationship private and happy. Without all the knowledge of your co-workers, bosses, and anyone else involved at your company or field. 


Is it better to keep you work at work. For example they say "Don't S**T Where you eat!" So what do you do now? How can you make the relationship work and still keep your eye on the prize? How can you reach your goal and allow them to focus on their tasks. Is it better to keep pleasure and love out of the equation at work. Can we only focus on business? Or is their a fine line too. 

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