Tuesday, April 25, 2017

“Making a Love connection in the digital age”


I cannot believe today it’s so hard for people to find love and decent relationships today.  As someone who is a hopeless romantic and believe love should be valued and come when the person is 100 percent ready and open to a mature, valuable, and healthy relationship.
It’s a bit of a disappointment you would think it would be easier actually. I have noticed with “Love Connection” the television show from the 1980s is coming back to network tv.  I noticed we have way too many options when it comes to relationships social media, reality television shows, escort services, you have the option to upgrade online for different dating websites and apps. Has anyone noticed you’re paying for love actually. Time has changed the human connection of a relationship, the beautiful experience you get to meet someone first. It changed the entire dynamic of relationships now because it used to be simple. You meet in person, you have a unique love story, and you build something. Now along with your every day purchases you have to actually pay for an account to get to know someone.
Let’s take my parents story mind you this was four decades ago in  college in 1977…..time has changed and things have advanced completely. They met simple love story boy met girl….dated…married…and then baby (me)...then later divorce (later on that).  See that story is 




Simple and easy now it’s a different story how do you trust the person with all of the freedom with a touch of one button on your cell phone or computer.

I am a little surprised at age 30…it would be this challenging I thought it was going to be easier and simple by now. Maybe a few more challenges but I feel like there’s so much more to take into consideration when dating online. Or maybe dating on a television show. I feel like dating on tv it’s supposed to allow you to gain more fame, more exposure, and you will receive more job opportunities. So I wonder I am thinking what’s better is it better to date someone and meet them the old fashioned way. Or should everyone adult sign up for an online relationship.
I will see this summer let’s see what the universe has in store. Is it better to meet someone on television, online, through friends, family, an arranged relationship or marriage, or your way.
Personally for me I love how I met some of my exes actually I think I could feel the connection right away from them. I knew I was attracted to them, I could feel the energy, and I can also feel when time was up for us too. I always knew I have had some powerful instincts so I always know when my relationship will progress and blossom. I do think for some people if you do your homework, be smart, use your social circle, your relationship can grow and be something amazing. I just suggest you can’t believe naïve,  your streetwise shades have to be on tight, and you have to do your homework. I think if I took that approach I would have to research this person just like I was applying for a job. So you know what you are getting into right away.  Ladies use those internet search engines with all of your power if you choose to go digital for love.
So let’s see this summer…who’s ready to make a love connection. 

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