As a child you’re growing up you
don’t realize the impact all the relationships you have in your life how they
will change and mold you while you are developing into the person that you will
be. I noticed it the other night when I was with someone special who’s entered
the picture he’s part of a new beautiful chapter in my life. A lot has happened
this year and I have had a lot of help behind the scenes from people to help me
prepare on how to look at my personal relationships especially when it comes to
my love life too. I told you all how I have been taking “Love Classes” on
YouTube and how I had a lot of people behind the scenes helping me with advice
from their own relationships, guidance spiritually from ordained pastors,
ministers both female and male. Who have also been in long-term relationships
and are married too. I took some of their advice not everything because I had
to be realistic too. You start looking at your life in a different way where
you are economically, where you are at this stage, where you need to be, your
desires, what do you really want the most too.
I am still taking my classes I
think they help me look at things a lot differently, a lot of the choices I
made in my life in the past and where I needed to be and where I want to be in
the future. I am on to a great path right now. I think for me though it’s a
matter of knowing am I 100 percent ready I am getting there I know what I want
it’s just a matter of making that a possibility. I noticed when I was spending
time with this person he makes me see some things that I probably picked up on
but kind of dismiss sometimes. How my parents challenge me I realize that when
I talk to my parents now as an adult then compared to when I was a little girl
or a teenager it’s much different. Their tone its sympathetic but it’s more
encouragement to make whatever challenge or problem to be resolved right away.
I remember as a kid it was bit more sympathetic, more loving, my father would
pick me up if I made a mistake and would kiss me. I will never forget I made a
mistake as a child in my ballet recital which we have on video.
I cried, and I was embarrassed because I didn’t mean to run
into one of my classmates in our ballet performance we played the home movies
and videos in front of all the family. I just remember him comforting me,
picked me up, and saying it’s ok. Or my mom if someone broke my heart she would
always hug and give me a kiss if I felt bruised, my pride was hurt, or I felt
it was my fault. I think we do not realize those relationships change us and
mold us into who we will be as adults in our personal relationships, the
workplace, how we deal with society too. It’s also about trial and error. You need
to know what works for you and what you want to teach your children on how to
deal with difficult challenges, how to respond to financial issues, personal
issues, relationship issues or things you want to make each other better. If it
weren’t for many people in my life I don’t think I would have learned the root
of your relationships are what happens at home. How you apply the good things
and teach your children how to be encouraging, supportive, praiseful, loving,
positive, confident, comforting, and giving those qualities that they will need
in many situations that’s the key for them to have a healthy, happier and more
positive relationship. I am not saying there will be not tough times, but these
qualities are the key to getting them out of those tough times.
I look at this person and all the
memories past to present, the things my parents shared with me, in their own
relationships growing up, throughout their time married, and even when they
moved on you must be willing to fight also for what you love too. Fight for
what you truly love and deserve too. So yes, I agree your relationships with
your mother, father, guardian, and all the people around you but your parents are
the root of how you present yourself to be the people out there. They are not
the answer or the outcome of what happens but its important that the next
generation learns the values, choices, and what will help build strong people
and better relationships. I just spoke to one of my parents and they mentioned
something that really is true that was repeated in a lot of the videos I have
been watching too…. “How you treat yourself and how you truly take care of
yourself is how the other person will treat you”. It shows too, and I believe
God knows that too. How you treat yourself inside and out will determine what
will I stand for, tolerate, oblige, and submit myself too.
Also, what can I sacrifice for this
person as well. I hope you all enjoyed this piece and I will have of course you
know a lot more to share on what’s happening in my crazy busy world right now.
As we wind down I just want to say for this year it’s funny the fashion pantone
color was green and what’s a symbolic for green-money, the value, four leaf
clover is a symbol of luck, and fortune.
I think this year for me was learning about my self-value, my
worth, my value of love and life too.
I am getting there and learning a lot along the way. So, let’s get ready
to celebrate all my readers, supporters, who are out there working hard to
better yourselves too have a great New Year! You all are in for some treats from me I hope in 2018
celebrating 10 years I cannot believe it. It feels just like yesterday I wrote
my first post and it has taken me on a path as a better writer and many other
areas of my life too Thank you all Besos, Hugs, Kisses, Most of all don’t
forget to love you cause that will help you love someone else too. I will see
you all very soon.
I chose this song by Mary J. Blige I heard it the other day when I was out shopping and just something about the lyrics reminded me once again it all comes back to that again of being able to treat you well before you can treat the person or people in our lives well too.
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